hey £, sorry to hear about the girl, but you know how this teen-age love takes place.. you have to be impulsive and act immediately, not think that you really like her and what she’ll think if “…”.
when you think of a girl that you really like, and what if’s.. it’s like you’re being wussyfied.. another dude comes that.. doesn’t “worship” her and.. does his thing, gets her an attention, a flower like you said.. takes her to a movie and whatnot, causing her to think about him.. and he doesn’t even need to be better than you, just.. do more.
happy aniversary 
and keep us posted.
You don’t seem to understand my view. She has inserted herself into ‘that’ group of kids in every highschool. The ones who think they’re badasses and think they’re so cool. I cut it off.
I can’t feel the love 
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ah, the “attention whores” group, i understand now, but nevertheless what i said stands in the future, I’ve been through it too many times in my youth, and please, PLEASE, don’t repeat same mistakes.. i’m also saying this remembering some older posts in this very thread like.. >>
and seeing your interior conflict.. do i call her, do i call her not?
when you were into her and genuinely looking for answers. seems you were hesitating exactly when you should have acted.. don’t let it happen in the future, that.. stage panic, cause it’s not the right thing to do.. not for you at least.
next time i (we?) want to see posts like “i called her today and asked her what she was doing.. right NOW. told her that we had to meet right NOW.(with an aggravated/sad voice). she seemed intrigued by my tone, asking me what happened, i wouldn’t say a word. she agreed. when we met i told her i.. just wanted to see her (with a playful tone), and to make up for this little.. “deception”.. i had a present for her. but she would have to say please.. few minutes of teasing later > the present was.. ME.(“i can’t give you anything more valuable”). she started punching me playfully and one thing led to another.. i played it cool and now she can’t get enough of me..”.
you know what i mean..? that’s the spirit, but it has to come within..
for me at least.. was very hard some time ago, when i asked myself the same questions, shy as hell, and i still consider myself shy sometimes.. but then i bitch slap myself and things look brighter.
and what i wrote ^, happened to me to some extent, can’t phrase exactly like it was but i drawn the picture pretty well. single thing i didn’t mention.. i drank a little(2 whiskey+amaretto shots) before calling her, (yeah..
)and didn’t happen “NOW”. it was the day after, but she was.. steaming curious LOL. but, it worked. i sticked to the plan.. after it was over.. few months later, i tried making it a routine, with other girls, and couldn’t pull it through consistently. you have to be spontaneous, funny, a little cocky..
well, i’ll hope someone will be inspired by that “dizzy” call i told you about.. or at least.. “get it”, and grabs his balls next time he’s wussying and does the right thing..
i’m off now, it’s late.. wish you all the best.
-stefan (stf)
I agreed with my buddy Eldros on what he have said there 
STF, you are missing the point there. I too get it why my buddy Eldros cut it off with that girl as she is already in the bad group i will say. And it is hard to change when you are in that group in fact you will do your best to fit in the group so they don’t look differently of you. Am i right Eldros?
Lol, those posts were made within the same hour, maybe 30 min. And I did shoot off a txt msg. I sent 3 in fact, and the last one was fool-proof. I did get in contact with her later though, through facebook. After seeing what kind of person she was and who she spends most of her time around (her influences), I decided that she was not the diamond in the rough. In fact, it was just a shiny POS. So I cut it off. But it’s not like I’ll never talk to her again. I’m just not going to make any openings to her again. If she want to talk, she’ll have to come find me. . . but I’m prolly not going to be buying flowers for her any time soon at all.
And I’d like the luxury of making posts like you (yall?) want me to more often, but I’d rather not give away too much about my personal life.
Now that I think of it, she prolly only liked me for my pherosig. . .
hey, g’morning lol. i hope i don’t appear like a jerk and a thread hijacker. far from me that thought. if i do, just tell me and i’ll delete those posts, with sincere apology 
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it seems that you got me wrong also. I too understand why he cut it off with her, and I thought I made it clear.
My point was, next time when “you” 'll meet a really nice girl, that you’re attracted to, stop thinking and start doing. Phero sig or not.. hey are you thinking about getting married or something? 
And right now, in your position, i’d probably be ignoring her, and cutting her short, until(+ if) she starts getting annoyed, then i’d tell her what a jerk she had become, since she started “living for others opinion”. but that’s just me. i’ll shut up now. ..and i’ll cut short the Instant Openness lol.
ps: how is your Dirty + Instant Gentleman combo going ?
lol, don’t worry about insulting me. I need mosre posts like yours; good food for thought. Besides, this is a spam thread. And don’t worry, I’ve been treating the ladies. . . just fine 
. Now that I think of it, HC might’ve just been a catalyst.
I haven’t really been working on my dirty + ig mix; haven’t used pheros since june 1st. But right now I have it at 4 drops dirty (2 spread between forearms, 2 spread on jawline/neck) + 3 IG (same areas as dirty to also help cover the smell).
This dude is literally the real life representation of your current avatar:
Ninja?..where are you? Did you get my PM?
Well, it’s been a while, so I’m sure that business is all done with anyway. You can easily compete with tulips, are you kidding? What if you brought her tulips made of ice? Will she like it? Maybe not, but she’d probably remember it for a long time. It’s not about doing it ‘better’, or ‘bigger’. Some girls might be into that, but for the most part it’s about how unique, funny, in short - pleasantly memorable someone is. In fact, you don’t even have to be that different, just do it before the other guy so that **to her **you’re unique. Usually, it’s about who goes for it, not who goes for it and doesn’t do the right things.
As for ‘teenage love’ and the ‘wrong crowd’, realize that things will change very quickly in the 2-3 years after graduation. I’m coming at you 3 years after my own graduation. People change, relationships change, a whole lot of shit can change in someone’s life in even a year. Most teenage love turns out to be infatuation. I’ve seen long time couples break up once they realize how big this world really can be. They want to meet new people, try new things, maybe live somewhere new.
I wouldn’t be so quick to rule people out of your life. You never know who’s under the surface if you never take a peek. Take action if someone is a threat to you, your family, or your friends, but if it’s just because you think they’re being stupid or whatever, well, it’s usually a phase, and truth be told, rejecting stupid people (to a reasonable limit) is sort of a phase too. You learn to just accept people for who they are and enjoy their company for whatever you enjoy about them. Can’t ask more of them, they’re just who they are. If someone really doesn’t vibe with you on any level, then yea, just don’t kick it with them. I still have a hard time just accepting people, but all you can do is just keep trying.
Morals, ethics, those should all be factored in of course. If you enjoy someone’s company but they’re going around robbing, and killing, then I think it’d be better to not hang with them, but I’m sure you get my point.
Either way, I hope you’re enjoying your summer, and get ready cause you’ve got some really fun (and interesting) years coming your way.
Damn, why are all the nice girls freaking hippies?!?
Freaking hippies, what do you mean buddy? Anyway great to have you back in here buddy http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_21.gif
They throw off the social conditioning along with the traditional shaving of armpits, attending to regular clean showers and wearing traditional clothing.
Anyone who has the inner strength to do that is going to be a bit nicer.
Oh, and they read lots of spiritual texts that tell them to find harmony, peace and loving vibrations. Which is good stuff all around.
Hmm, oh i see, so that is what freaking hippies means Very interesting indeed Thanks for explaining evolver
Well I was a little too young for this…a picture is worth more than I can say…here ya go.
Hmm, yes thanks for the link Bella I’m looking at the website right now & it is very interesting Thanks again
Have you come to any conclusions on P100 Eldros? A little birdie tells me it might be useful for increasing productivity and doing chores…
Yes. From what I’ve experienced, p100 seems like alphanol on steroids. As to what the little birdie told you, I am very intimidating in certain situations. Putative #100 might have pushed them over the edge and made them finally open up to me. So yeah, p100 might give social mixes the kick in the balls they need.
Interesting, so P100 adds something extra socially. How many mcg are you wearing for this effect? They opened up to you - was the effect like Beta-Nol or something else entirely? Please describe when you have time as this one is definitely on my list to try, just don’t know what strength I should get. ‘Alpha-Nol on steroids’ sounds interesting anyway lol…
I can also be intimidating/too intense and the best thing I’ve found to counter that is a bit of TAK (too much and the effect becomes too disrespectful).
Heyy, this kid’s still alive.