My wife was laid off from her business analyst job almost two years ago and has been searching ever since. She’s gotten some short-term contract jobs, but has yet to manage to land a permanent position. She is older and overweight and thinks these things are working against her. She’s been the 2nd choice several times, but for whatever reason, despite having extensive skills and a great resume, hasn’t landed the job.
Can pheromones help?? What ones would you suggest??
There is also a sticky here in the Women’s Forum, that I found interesting. It’s Kittens Curious Combos, and she has an interview mix that might be beneficial to your wife. It wouldn’t hurt to reads the sticky, in any case.
Good luck to you both. My ex was out of work for 2 years and it was very hard on us. I was fortunate that I had my job. I hope she finds something soon
Well, two years of searching, it’s not like she ain’t tryin’! Short-term work is, at least, something and shows that she can get work! Wouldn’t it be nice if one of these temporary jobs segued into something permanent. But your wife is right, despite her skills and great resume, unfortunately, sadly, nauseatingly, in today’s uber competitive job market you need every edge/advantage you can lay your hands on. Age is a detriment/deterrent to being hired ANYWHERE, as this country is rabid with ageism and weightism as well. If it’s between two qualified candidates and one is younger and more physically attractive, most likely the younger one will be hired. Also they may be able to hire a qualified, yet less experienced, younger candidate for the same job for considerably less money. Don’t get me started, lol.
Now that little pearl really doesn’t help you, so onto pheromones. I suggest, Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, P74 and P86.
At one time we had a true alpha-woman’s mix but MX134 is no longer available. Too bad because now we have nothing like it. Desperate times call for desperate measures and because of that some women like Sillykitty , who can tolerate it when buffered well, use the men’s A314 to try to bring about self confidence and to inspire an aura of leadership/trust/respect in the workplace. Luckily, it works for her. There are also new spray versions of A314 available, for men, that a couple of the women are using.
Personally, I don’t subscribe to using A314 for that purpose, but that’s me and my own personal opinion. It doesn’t agree with me. I don’t like the rapid heart rate I experience nor the feelings of irritability/anxiety it causes. It puts me on edge. I’ve tried it several times and even well buffered, I always end up scrubbing it off for relief. It just doesn’t fit my chemistry but to each her own. Everyone is different and her mileage will vary accordingly.
Before your wife even attempts to experiment with A314, she should do herself a favor and get a handle on the Instant Line first. Trying one at a time. (You read about “sweet spot” testing, right? ) That will give her some pheromone sea legs, lol.
Instant Shine is energizing and does what it says it will do. It projects an upbeat persona that can lift spirits and translates into making people feel good around you. Instant Honesty for depth of conversation and to help people open up to you on a deeper level. P74 is the go along, get along, cohesive group pheromone. It also gives a cool guy aura and people want to be in your company. P86 gives a rose colored glasses glow to surroundings and people as well. It’s known to make people perceive you and others around you as more visually attractive. Put that together with good grooming and her bangin’ credentials and they might provide the edge she needs.
As far as her age goes, there’s not much your wife can do to turn back the hands of time (would that we could, lol) unless she’s willing to go through the pain of plastic surgery. (If I should come across something else, you can be sure I’ll shout it from the roof top of AD! ) But while waiting/searching for her next job opportunity, maybe she can work on losing a little weight and make a few changes to help present an overall younger appearance, if she thinks that will really help. Perhaps a little makeover? Not that she looks like Quazimoto! . I’m sure she’s lovely. But a good hair cut and/or new color and maybe a makeup consultation, if she thinks she could use a bit of help in that area…and perhaps a new well tailored stylish business suit to wear on interviews could go a long way even if it just helps boost her confidence. If she thinks she needs it. Hey, every little bit helps when trying to project a more desirable, hireable “image”.
As you said, Joe, your girl is in the running and losing by a nose.This is war, baby, and she needs to pull out the biggest/best guns she’s got in her arsenal! I hope that some of the above suggestions are helpful and I wish her good luck!
Yes, there’s a lot of great info in Kitten’s Curious Combos thread! Although the interview mix contains the inimitable, unavailable MX134. Her Curios Combos are/were fabulous but most are a bit outdated now, with TAL, TAH, MX134, MX135 and IS/A no longer available…and since IS/B has been reformulated it’s therefore different than the one discussed in that thread. Sad to say and hard to duplicate those combos when the major female molecules aren’t available anymore. Although EST, which is in some of the combos, is available from other vendors.
The molecules needed to make them are not available at this time and there is no word that they will/can be made again. MX134 isn’t the be all and end all. Just because one MX works well for someone doesn’t mean it works that way for everyone. There are a lot of other molecules here, such as the ones I suggested to you, that can be very useful if she’s interested in/willing to taking the time necessary to do a little experimenting with them.
It’s a lot like building a house, Joe. You need to start from the ground floor and work your way up. It’s not easy to build a house if you don’t know how to drive in a nail. If just spraying on pheromones would do the job/get the job for you, we would all be CEO’s. Pheromones are simply tools to enhance what’s already there and can successfully be used to your advantage if you simply take the time to work with them/do a little experimenting and to learn to use/apply them correctly.
Sometimes, as I said above, depending on their personal chemistry, they can.
These are the ones that project feminine energy. A314 projects heaps of masculine energy and that’s why women who can/do use it need to buffer it very well.
2X means twice the pheromones of 1X. It’s used when you want more pheromone effects and not more of the cologne fragrance.
I understand that this is all a bit confusing when you first come aboard. That’s why we have stickies at the top of each forum to answer common newbie questions. If you take the time and have some patience to do some reading, you’ll find that a lot of the questions you have asked are already answered there.