First time poster. I have never used pheromones but I am thinking of giving them a try to improve my game with a particular coworker on a particular trip. I don’t want it for general purpose but for a specific girl I am trying to win (or actually win back). Below is a description of the situation.
As I said she and I are coworkers. We are on the same team and spend a lot of time together. We were friends first, then “work spouses” and finally romantic. We had a secret office romance going for about a year. Mostly touching and kissing in secret, romantic lunches, occasional discrete rendezvous outside of work etc. We made love one time on a business trip 6 months ago. She is a divorced mother and insisted our relationship be kept secret from her ex, her kids and our other coworkers. In her defense a workplace romance would be heavily frowned upon by our management.
She ended the romantic part of our relationship all together in July and moved us back into the “friend zone”. She is still crazy about me and tries to be around me all the time and we still share very intimate conversations, just no physical contact at all and no meetings outside of work.
Well we are going on a 4-day business trip to Hawaii next month (I really love my job). We will be working in an office days but alone and free at night. We will be eating dinner together and probably bar hoping, dancing or whatever at night. It will only be the two of us. The setting and situation are really ideal. Naturally I want to try to bring back the romance and think that pheromones could help put me over the edge in that regard. After reading here I was thinking of IFM for after work to bring back the closeness, cuddling and intimacy and then TUTH after the first couple days if it looks promising. Are these the right ones, am I on the right track?
A few specific questions/concerns
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My number one priority is to bring back the “feel good” parts of the romance without risking the friendship. She expects me to flirt and hit on her, but in a friendly and not overbearing manner. Sex would be great, but the closeness is what I am really after.
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Smell: I don’t wear cologne and she knows I don’t wear it. If I can pass it off as deodorant soap, body lotion or hair spray I could probably get by but if she recognizes a cologne on me she would think that is a cheesy attempt to seduce her.
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Safety with alcohol: Both of us will probably be drinking quite a bit. Will this cause a problem or interaction with pheromones?
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When will IFM be back in stock?
Any advice or ideas or comments would be appreciated. As I said I have never used pheromones before and my entire knowledge comes from this or other websites.