Had an interesting day. An old friend of mine called me to come over and help him with something in his yard. Well this was a ruse to get me over to meet this girl. I would say around 20. Said she was 1/4 latino. The rest I would guess white. She’s very cute, and seemed pretty cool. After that it was a go for him to give me her number. Now I won’t subtract points from her for having bad taste.
Anyway there are complications. She literally just broke up with her fianc?. Apparently he was a real bad dick to her all the time, but I’ve been around women a whole lot in my life, and I know that doesn’t mean too much. I’ve seen a lot of women take a lot of bs. She wanted to meet me because my buddy basically said I’m the nicest guy he knows. Not sure I like that, but I am who I am. Anyway I’m not sure how much I want to invest in this because I know usually people get back together when this stuff happens. Anyway I’m terrible with women so I need advice on everything from what someone that’s 30 should wear mone wise around someone about 20. Also how I should overall conduct myself. When to contact her etc. I don’t like asking for help, but I realize I’m out of my depth. I’m terrible with romance. So HELP! I’m not really sure what I want out of it yet since I don’t know her. I’m not really out for or against a relationship, or just a hookup. I don’t really know her so I don’t much know what I want out of this.
Thanks for sharing your story. Well depending on where you want things to go is where I would start. Being that she just got out of a relationship just be careful not to set yourself up to be hurt and just have fun and see what happens.
What to wear depends on what you have in your collection. Being 20 I would stay light on anything with None, but have some or it will be a total friendzone. I would think with you being 30 right at about 2 sprays of Ammo should work really nice here.
Is should also help things out as well 2-3 sprays. Actually if you have Summer Ammo this would be perfect at 2-3 sprays.
You’re right man I just need to get to know her and not expect anything. I didn’t get to talk to her but for about 30 minutes. I got blind sided so I didn’t have on any mones. She didn’t seem like the wild type. Which is good. I tend to have a somewhat strong personality and me and the wild types end up clashing in the end. She seemed to joke around well with me which is most definitely a plus. Other than that I still really just got to get to know her. I decided I wouldn’t call her for a few days since she literally had just broken up the night before. I just hope I’m not shooting myself in the foot with that one.
No ammo summer, but I do have ammo and IS. So i’ll do a couple of each next time I see her.
I would just have your guard up just so you don’t get hurt and honestly just hang out with her and see where it goes you never know.
Ammo/IS is almost always my go to mix if I have any doubt and works very well and for all kinds environments to. You could that setup and once you get to know her then you can steer the way you want.
I have found with younger women to use little None and heavier on the socials like IH, IO, or IS.