I’m a newbie at this and just received my first products yesterday. Yay.
In my “beginner’s toolbox” are Instant Shine (1x), Instant Honesty (2x), Instant Openness (1x), Instant Sexiness B, and whatever the lowest dosage of TAF.
Part (okay, much) of my reason for getting into this is to see if pheromones could affect a certain guy I have a crush on. In the past, he’s commented on my cuteness and every once in a while he will say nice things that he knows will get back to me. However, when I’m face to face with him he either smiles and seems glad to see me or he totally ignores me, even when I say hi. It depends on the day, I guess We’ve never had a real conversation (as I am a social idiot, literally). {and i know the mones won’t cause us to have a conversation if I can’t think of anything to say–I’ve been reading, yep :o)
I’m hoping that maybe some of my new toys will cause him to express himself once and for all and help us to get past polite hellos and thank yous. I only interact with this guy for about 5-7 minutes once a week, depending on the circumstances. He’s a messenger type employee, so I never know when I’ll see him.
Here’s where you (the pros) come in. Obviously I don’t see him all that much, so when I’m more likely to see him, I want to pack the biggest punch possible. I thought I’d consult with you all before acting because I’m not much educated on the components of the mones and which are similar and their effect when used together, etc.
I was thinking that I should use maybe 2 sprays IS/b to the collarbone and 1 spray of IO and IH to each wrist (2 sprays each). I know everyone is different, but do you think I should (could) up those sprays or switch where I spray? I’m willing to risk OD, but I don’t want to be too smelly.
First we cant really tell you what your dosage should be because its different for all of us. We all are built different both on the inside and outside so you have to experiment to find the dosage that works well for you.
Finding your sweet spot is explained at the bottom of the first post there.
Next I do feel from what you have told us he probably has a interest in you. He just may be shy or nervous just like you so he has trouble conversing sometimes. I would start with Ishine and IH to help give him a more comfortable close feeling. This should help him open up more, Then once you get that working layer in some instant sexiness to help peek his romantic interest.
I totally agree with Tish here. From working here I never really realized how shy most men are and even when they try to play it off they get nervous around us ladies especially when they are not sure how to pick up on our signals.
In testing on my own I have learned that you have to be so careful with your body language and the vibe that you give off. I was angry once with my latest “friend” because he did not talk to me for a while day only to find out I was giving off that back off me vibe and he didn’t know how to react so it seemed like he was ignoring me. Sounds familiar.
You don’t want to come off too forward but you don’t want to wait for years to find out what is the deal. Use the products recommended by the lovely Tish and keep us updated.
Thanks for your replies. It’s so hard to follow the “rules” because I never know exactly when he’ll come by or if I’ll even have to interact with him when he does stop by.
and every once in a while he will say nice things that he knows will get back to me. However, when I’m face to face with him he either smiles and seems glad to see me or he totally ignores me, even when I say hi. It depends on the day, I guess 
We’ve never had a real conversation (as I am a social idiot, literally). {and i know the mones won’t cause us to have a conversation if I can’t think of anything to say–I’ve been reading, yep :o)