So, I forgot to put something on this morning. When I got to work, it seemed like I got a lot more interaction from the office people than when I’ve got some A314 on. Could people be being overly deferential to me when I’m wearing it? I’ve worn anywhere from 1-4 drops in the past with no appreciable difference in results.
A3414 does seem to provide a ‘social distance’ for most people. It shows just how much A314 affects those around you.
Okay. I usually try to lighten it up with some IS or CTTM. Maybe I’ll ease up on the A314 and up the socials a little.
Even with the socials (at least in my experience) A314 seems to still put people in ‘awe’ of the wearer. So much so that they might not approach as much as they otherwise would. Not necessarily a bad thing to have people in awe of you.
You have to be the open one in my experience. Talk to them. They will talk back 
It really makes you become forward in a good way. I used to be the guy at work who kept to himself, working his ass off. Now I work less than most and make more money doing it. Its crazy! Plus, now I can get away with almost anything. People are in awe. They want to do what I do, but they feel like they can’t. If they only knew what just a tiny shift in their perception would do for them…
I could see that buddy,
I would try a smaller dosage of A314 (if not a couple days off)
and a bunch of IO… the combination can give what A314 gives you, but along with the IO it can get people to still feel comfortable and open around you.
IO also helps YOU be open as well. So if there is a fear to start a conversation with others that can really help. That was my first mix… A314 and IO. Then I added IJ. I really became very cocky then. But it made me a superstar to others. I can’t even explain. Everyone at work had my name on thier lips. I have stopped using that combo since then. I needed to calm down a bit. Plus I wanted to test and start making my own mixes.
It doesn’t seem like people are “in awe” of me. Just that they don’t seem to pay attention to me at all.
think you need to notice people more… might be getting hits you dont realize.. .also strike up conversation, you might notice it then.
That was how I felt at work. I can completely understand where you are coming from. I was promoted to a special department that only had 5 people in it. We were like a satellite office for another state. I worked there for 2 years then we were closed and I was moved back to work with everyone else. No one “knew” me anymore. They knew of me, but that was it.
When I got the A314 I decided that I was going to just be me. There is a phrase I heard once. Fake it till you make it. Thats what I did. I faked I was the best, I was the most popular, that the ladies loved me- until that came to pass. It only took about 2 months and I realized I was where I wanted to be then some. I am at the top of my game. I am like Mr. popular with everyone. They want to know my opinions on important matters. Or not so important matters. I got a fabulous raise. (I already made more than everyone else due to my previous mentioned promotion) If I can say so my self – I am the shit. I am not saying it to be cocky or arrogant. It is the truth. Man- fake it till you make it. Whatever kind of person you want to be, just put on your A314 and be that type of man. People will accept it. They will not think twice about it.
Here is a stupid example: I work at a financial institution. We CANNOT wear flip flops. If you do you will be sent home. It has happened tio several others. Since I was wearing A314 I started to use Instant Jerk with it. It helped me set my frame of mind how I wanted it at the time. One day I was being cocky, I decided I was going to wear my flip flops. I wore them. And I have worn them almost everyday since. I have never had any one say a word about them. Others still have been sent home. Fair? No. But that is how it is with A314. I am not promoting breaking the rules, but if you have the status why not take advantage of its benefits
Andrew bro, how old are you and how much a314 do you usually put on?
Part of the deal is that in this office, we all have our own offices (which, don’t get me wrong, is great), and don’t generally interact all that much in person. So it’s kind of hard to gauge results. I’ll just keep my eyes open.
I am 30. And I use 3 drops. A good mix to start with is with Instant Openess. It not only works on others but yourself as well. So its easier to be open towards others.
Even though you are all in seperate offices, go for a walk, visit others. In an enclosed room pheros will hit the other person easier. Just go for a chat.