*nervous laugh* hello...

So on this forum I guess you can call me Lydia. I live in beautiful southern california and work in the medical billing industry (trust me not by choice :angry:) I don’t know anything about pheomones. Literally nothing. Only that by some weird science they work, and they work well. I guess I should start at the beginning. My boyfriend and I have been going steady for about 2 3/4 years. We are living together and have a wonderful little apartment away from both of our parents. I couldn’t be happier. But with my man, he had his secrets. I’m not sure if it was a result of a unorthodox childhood or a lack of trust on his part but there was alot of things about him that I didn’t know about. They weren’t big things like his likes and dislikes, just small ones like what shampoo did he use, the difference between what he said and what he meant, things like that. One of the big ones was what fragrance he was wearing. He would keep it in unmarked bottles (at least the ones I saw) and hid them in his car. He would come back into the house smelling just heavenly and the more I smelled it the more I just wanted to cancel all plans and spend a intimate night indoors if you know what I mean :wink:. It drove me nuts not knowing what it was. It was fine if he had some privacy, but curiousity was becoming overwhelming. What was this smell that was driving me crazy? Last night, I finally got my answer. He showed me his little collection of pheromone products, things that would make him feel or others feel a certain way. Instant jerk, instant shine, instant whatever. It made sense to me because as little as I know about pheromones I understood the basic concept of them. I read a little about using pheromones for study purposes and it fascinated me. The fact that he had those in his possesion was actually a big turn on, that he was doing something that he believed that would help ‘win me over’ or anyone else for that matter. He has about as much low self esteem that I do when it comes to the opposite sex. I asked where I could find more information and he linked me to the site. I guess what I want from pheromones in the short run is a little boost for myself during the work day. My job is hell plain and simple and to be able to go through a day without blowing up at someone takes every once of energy. I’m not sure quite yet whether or not pheremones can help me with that but we’ll see. My long term goal is to find a way to make myself more appealing toward my man (or any other man if things go bad which I doubt) through making myself feel better about myself. I realize that I would have to do alot of research but hopefully time will tell if any of this can help me.

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Hi Lydia, really good intro, I can understand your skepticism I was too at first. Now a couple of things. Every human produced them natural, one more, one less. The thing is if you find the products that work for you, you can steer the effects. But I must also say they are also no magic pill, they work like a tool, a booster for your own personality and social skills. The better they are, the better are also the effects.

You need better conversations with your boyfriend. Then try IH, it’s trust and bonding, great for your relationship and it’s deep connection. I think he much more open up with it.

Hahahah, I understand, he uses mones, what a bad men :stuck_out_tongue:, I would never do that… :smiley: He used Androtics stuff? Even better, you see this stuff work for him and you. :wink::smiley:

For the workplace try the new MX397, better self-confidence and a sexy alpha aura. Perfect for the workplace. For mood elevating and shining aura try Instant Shine, you can add it to everthing.

Maybe try also Instant Sexiness B, it’s feminine, sexy and sweet. A cuddly and pleasure maker, I think your boyfriend love it.

And don’t forget your gc, wait on Mickaela for it. Maybe 24 hours.

I think your relationship get a boost now. He and you + the mones = a exciting time… !!! :stuck_out_tongue:

Great pot and warmth wishes :slight_smile:

Hi there Lydia,

Thats cool that youve already been exposed to pheromone products.They definitely work well and help to boost your personality and abilty to attract.They can be used both socially and for attraction but they help set the mood but they dont do all the work for you.You will still have to act like the vibe you are giving out(^_^)This links pretty good on explaining what to expect when using them.

What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated

You will actually be able to try them out risk free when you get your 25$ gift certificate for your introduction.This will let you get some to-go’s and see what works out best for you.For appealing more to your man,instant sexiness B will definitely be good as it gives you a sexy,confident in your own skin vibe which will increase male attraction.You should also get instant shine which gives a confident,fun vibe which makes you and the people around you happier and is good to pair with attraction products.After trying those 2,you could maybe get instant openness which makes people more chatty or instant honesty which increases bonding and is good for dating.You should definitely check out some of the stickies below as they have good information and beginner advice.All the best and hope things go well for you(^_^) Definitely should hang around the forums as everyone is friendly and helpful here.

An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of

Womens Pheromone Guide

Pheromone FAQs

Business Applications

Hey Lydia, its great that your on the board and already have a good mind frame for trying mones :slight_smile:
You’ve been given some killer advice above me so i won’t repeat them, use your Gift certificate to try a few togos and and you will be pleased, IO is a good one if you want to see some blatant effects :smiley:
I’d read up some of the girls experiences in their journals and on their board for the female only products but the socials you cant go wrong with, IH may help you out with his secret keeping (though I think needing to know what shampoo he uses is walking the fine line of crazy girlfriend :smiley: :smiley:)
I hope we helped you out Lydia and I look forward to reading your results soon :slight_smile:

Hi honey!

(turns to everyone else) SHE’S MINE!!!

Welcome to pherotalk Lydia!

Let me first say your b/f and yourself seem sooooooooo cute. I love it. (giggles)

Shine is my first recommendation for you. It will make you feel calm , relaxed and give off that youthful vibe that will draw others to you.

is/b seems to suit your personality and will not only give of that sweet, soft girl vibe but make you feel comfortable in your skin.

honesty will bring about closeness and makes others feel they can trust and open up to you.

Keep us updated on your progress.

Your gc was issued! :wink: