I’m new here and new to this stuff and I’ve been poking around the forums trying to see what was up and finally decided I’d join and just ask haha. I’m a 19 year old college girl from Ohio and have nooo experience with this stuff so I’m pretty curious about it.
The reason is that I have totally been dating what I think is the guy of my dreams, haha. We’ve been long distance for the last few months but this is causing some doubt and uncertainty on his part. We don’t see eachother all the time anymore, and enough time has gone by now that that ‘new relationship’ feeling is wearing off and it’s getting kind of, well, ‘settled’ I guess.
I know that pheros can’t like, make him more sure about me or anything like that, but that means they won’t have the adberse effect right? Like, would they confuse him more or convince him he doesn’t like me or something? Sounds dumb probably, but I have no clue!
My main goal is that I want to just make our relationship more fun and more exciting, like when we started dating. Nothing has really changed with us, just less time spent together, etc. We communicate well and really go at it in the bedroom, lol, but I’m wondering if this stuff could spice things up for us at all in effort of improving things.
We’re both naturally shy people, and both of us are pretty intellectual but we’re really goofy and like to have fun. I just want us to have more fun together and keep the spark alive
I also have no idea what to buy. Any suggestions? Thanks!!
Pheromones will add spice to just about anything, and there is a flavor for every occasion. DOn’t worry about feeling overwhelmed by the huge amount of information here, it won’t take long until you catch on and feel more confident.
If you’ll tell us a little more about your personality, we can make some recommendations that will really help you.
Are you shy or outgoing? Do you feel confident meeting new people, or are you more introverted? Is there anything specific you’d like to accomplish with pheros, such as more intimate conversation, more sex, more confidence?
Glad you’re here. Looking forward to your responses.
Welcome to the forum sweetie! It’s nice to have more female members here!
Oh no no, pheros just enhance you. Possibly make him wonder what’s new about you, and all the seem you make seem more attractive
Alrighty, for products. Instant sexiness is a must. There are 2 types ofproducts though there is instant sexiness A which is like angelina jolie in a bottle (strong, confident, sexy) and then there is instant sexiness b which is like Marilyn munroe in a bottle (kittenish, cutsy, cuddly). So you’ll need to figure out which kind of girl you are. It’s better to buy to-gos first and see which one you like It’s a sexy product, I’m more of a instant sexiness A girl and honey this product gets me stares and approaches It’s quite flattering
You got some great advice from both Ms. Selva and MoonWhisper. They know what they are talking about. Just stopping by to wish you a warm welcome, and if you need any help, let me know, I’ll be more than glad to give you advice.
Well I’m a pretty shy person until i warm up to somebody, then I’m really chatty. I am terrible in huge groups of people. I am definately the ‘wallflower’.I wish I wasn’t like that all the time, because I feel like I miss out on meeting so many people, but I always feel like people just don’t notice me. I feel overlooked.
I get pretty confused on where I lie on the cute-sexy spectrum, haha. Like I feel like I can be a really sexy person in the bedroom or with the right outfit, but people often view me or describe me as ‘cute’. That’s a tough one, haha. But I really do try to pull off the sexy mysterious girl thing, but like to be cute and cuddly for my guy when he wants me to be.
I really just want to spice up our relationship and bring us closer, have more fun, keep the flame alive, haha.
For shyness: instant openness is great it will make you feel more chattier than usual. It’s great for socializing. And people usually feel comfortable and relaxed speaking with you as well, just make sure you have a watch and don’t need to catch the train or something lol
mx135 is excellent to pop out from the crowd. It comes in a chocolatini scent. Some of the ladies say that it’s like the “center of attention” in a bottle. People seem to crowd around you, give you attention, some get flirty. It’s a nice “instant star” mix.
It comes in other scents as well mx235 (is a cookie scent) and mx335 (is in grapefruit scent). They all contain the same pheros but the numbers are different because they have different scents.
you might like instant sexiness B but do get instant sexiness A just in case you like it. To-gos are the way to go to see if you like a product before investing in a bigger bottle
Pheromones can do so much but remember it brings out what is already there. There are times when the relationship gets kinda routine especially when you guys have been together for a while and get really comfortable with each other.
You will need to take a trip down memory lane and figure out some of the things that you guys use to do especially in the bedroom you don’t do anymore. Try to recreate some of these things and add some new places, ideas together with your pheromones.
The 5ml bottles has 40 sprays and the 30ml bottles has 200 sprays. You are young so you would not need so much pheromones so I suggest the to go bottles in your first order. Eventually when you get use to pheromones and you use it to experiment daily, weekly you will definitely need the 30ml bottles.
You can also introduce your boyfriend to pheromones and the two of you can experiment and get wild together. In addition to the instant sexiness I suggest instant honesty, intimacy is a great place to start when you want to introduce new things into the relationship and bedroom. Instant honesty will make him feel close to you and feel like he can trust you even more than he already does.