I’d run Ammo and say Instant Shine… the latter is going to have effects on you and a girl, I know the self effect for Instant Shine makes me feel bulletproof and suave and gets me quite chatty which is outside of my norm (I’m not a chatty person in person, quite quiet and reserved)… your mileage may vary of course but if you just give Instant Shine a search you’ll see a lot of people get a lot of good effects out of it.
This chart gives a decent idea of what to go for, it’s originally from Phero Color Chart by MuskCloud (Phero color chart by MuskCloud: a visual guide to choosing mixes) and like I said Ammo with the IS overlaps well for what you are looking for.
http://www.pheromonetalk.com/attachments/mens-pheromone-advice-tricks-tips/697d1259948394-phero-color-chart-muskcloud-phero-color-chart.jpg