New Member, New to Pheromones & Looking For a New Social Life

My name is Josh and I’m 21 years old. I live in upstate New York.

I’ve always been interested in pheromones since a few years ago. I first heard about a product called Primal Instinct, then came across a product called Pherlure. I was very close to purchasing Pherlure a couple of weeks ago, but that was until I ventured to a website that was completely debunking Pherlure for all it’s worth. That’s when I finally discovered Smartmones.com and this forum. I have yet to purchase any pheromone products, but I’m definitely looking forward to it, especially after having been reading what I’ve seen here.

I never usually seem to have trouble with getting the attention of any women, but I definitely don’t get as much attention from as many women as I actually could. I’ve noticed that I’ve begun to become much less shy as I get older, but I’ve been looking for ways to totally overcome my shyness and work to the potential that I know I have. Sure, I’ve gotten eye contact on many occasions, including phone numbers and sometimes body contact, such as touching the arm, holding hands, etc. Had some different sexcapades as well.

I work a normal work week, Sunday through Thursday. I have Friday and Saturday nights off. I usually go out with my buddies to the bars and clubs. We’re always looking to get tipsy and meet different women. My friends tend to like whistling and shouting out the window to women. I’ll usually stop the car, but my friends let the girls walk on by. I get frustrated by this and wish I could just pull the car over, get out, approach these women, and score at least a phone number, if not an invitation to a party somewhere. It’d be a nice confidence booster, would show my friends up, and would most likely lead to an interesting evening between a women and myself.

I’m definitely not as shy as I used to be, but I missed out on so many differnet opportunities in high school and don’t want to miss out on anymore. Why should I let the lack in confidence of my peers bring me down along with them? I show who the real man is by stepping up to the plate, approaching women, etc. I’m planning on purchasing pheromones, using them on our nights out, and keeping it to myself. It’ll be my little secret. I know my friends will look in awe.

I’m here to learn as much about pheromones as possible and hopefully have some luck with using different products. I’m open to any advice and suggestions that any fellow members are willing to offer.

Hey there and welcome! I stumbled upon this the same way you did. I had nearly bought a bottle of pherlure when I found a post by a very unsatisfied customer on this very forum.
Some people have actually gotten good results from it, but the general consensus is the product is totally not worth the money.

There are some great threads at the top of the mens forums that go into every smartmones product in great detail, but here are a few quick picks based on what I think might be good for you.

You sound like you’ve got a good head only your shoulders, sounds like you just need a little boost to make things smoother with the ladies.
Ammo is a great product in this regard. One part sex appeal, one part confidence, one part social boost. It’s a great all around product that may be what you are looking for. Perfect for bars.

Instant Openness is a great one for making conversations more natural. You’ll find yourself opening up more, and you’ll find others to be easy to talk to. I find that this one is great for people who fall under the category of people who are a bit shy but wish they weren’t. It’s helped me loads.

Instant Female Magic - great for making friends with women. Not exactly sexual in nature, but really makes women friendly, and works wonders on “bitchy” women.

I defintely suggest reading through the archives a bit to get a feel for what the main commercial products are good for. You might want to try those, or you might find yourself heading in a different direction. Good luck.

Welcome to the forum!

If you find women to be attracted but want them to feel comfy enough to give their number and come on a date, Instant Honesty may help with that. If you find them willing to date you but you want things to get a bit more passionate, you may want to try Ammo or Turn up the Heat.

Good luck!

Welcome to this forum Josh!

Martyr did a great job explaining the most popular pheromones already :slight_smile: I would say that io will help you finalize the process of overcoming shyness totally. It works even better since you are already doing great on that. Ammo would be a great product for you in general too, it gets you more noticed and its good for attraction!

Looks like that you are trying (or already) an alpha of the group of friends, so something like ig or a314 can help you too, if you want to step up and be the one guy that people will pay more attention to.

Good luck!

Hello Welcome to Pherotalk :slight_smile:

Well its great your getting over your shyness although I dont suggest yelling out the windows at girls and then pulling over and approaching them. Its creepy, believe me I have been there.

I suggest you start with AMMO and Instant Openness .

Ammo is sexy attractive arousing and interesting.

Instant Openness is a great icebreaker although I prefer Instant Honesty for a deeper more comforting feeling.

Turn Up The Heat is good for clubbing and one on one situations but I do suggst getting some socials to use with it to make it less intimadating.

Look forward to chatting with you in the forum

Your GC is on its way :wink:

Tisha