The commercial products listed here are very good and work for most people. The Instant line is great and company backs them up with a real guarantee. However … phero’s only do about 10-20% of the work you must do the rest. Might I suggest trying some of the social products like Instant Openness … this might get the shy guys chatting it up. Welcome and have fun…
Hi WannaBSexi,
I’m not a longtime member or anything but I have had experience with pheromones from other places for a few years. (most of the time unsuccessful) The products I purchased in stores and even some that I got online were sometimes geared towards males or just didn’t tell me what was in them. I read a lot and did a lot of research before I ordered from this company and so far, I am very pleased. There are so many people willing to help. The kicker for me, other than the products working for me so far, was when they tell you other reputable places to get whatever they do not offer. Shows integrity. Anyway, welcome, and your mother steered you in the right direction.
About your choices, I have yet to see LAM, it’s on my wish list. I highly recommend instant sexiness A and B, and Instant shine. Great stuff. I started with to go sizes of all of the Instant products and have since then placed two more orders for full sized. and a few of the mixes. Good Luck! 
Hey there WannaBSexi, welcome to the forum!
I might add that Instant Sexiness A gives you off a more of an alpha sexy vibe. Think Angelina Jolie. IS/B gives off a more cute, kittenish vibe. Think Marilyn Monroe. I woud start off with whichever one works in harmony with your own personality and vibe. If you have any questions let us know, we are a community of sharing knowledge. Best of luck!