Hello everyone on the forum. I am happy to be here and learning all that I can about pheromones. I have read some of the forum entries and the amount of information here is HUGE, somewhat overwhelming.
Let me start by talking about me. I am a 48 yr old guy, recently single, recently moved to So Cal. Don’t know any one (specifically women) and trying to start again at this age is not easy.
I am not really into bars or clubs (which are usually a younger crowd), but I have met a couple of friends at work and have been to a party or two at their invites. I am also working on doing sensual massage for women.
I am not very outgoing, but not really introverted either. I guess that I am shy until I feel a bit more comfortable with a conversation.
I think that I am looking (hoping?) for is a couple of different situations and reactions.
If I am at a party of like aged people, I would like to “stand out” a bit so that some of the women might notice me, start a conversation with me or give me the confidence (based on her signals) to start a conversation with her.
If I am at a party of younger crowd, would I need something different (than same aged crowd)?
When I am giving a massage (which is very sensual), I would like for the woman to feel relaxed and confident in me. I would also like her to fondly remember me so that she will call me back later.
I am not sure if I would want to wear pheromones at work, but I am in an office environment with politics, climbers, and lots of attractive women.
Thanks for reading my story and I look forward to seeing what those of you that are experienced will recommend to me
I’m sure you’ll like it here. Don’t worry. It seems intimidating at first, but you’ll get the hang of things in no time. People here are really helpful!
If you want to stick out, I’d recommend Instant Shine and Instant Openness for the self- effects. I’m not sure about the age crowds having a difference. I hear using different amounts changes who you attract, but I’m not so sure about that.
Based on what you’ve told us, Ammo would be a great product for you to start with. It will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be used in any environment or situation.
Instant shine will give you a positive charismatic glow that others will want to be around. It also has great self effects as a mood booster, and can be used alone or together with Ammo.
To get those women comfortable with you, Instant Honesty is the way to go. It addsa feeling of closeness, connection and depth to conversation and gets people to talk to you about things that you might not expect them to.
I am about your age (but married), Renny is too but single as is Steve. Gegogi is a little older, single, asian. Mark-in-Dallas is just a little older and single. Ooohyahhh is a little older and single too.
I mention all this as you can check out what we are all wearing for what purposes and the doses will be pretty close also. Except for Gegogi - he can go very high with the none doses.
Check out my Ammo and A314 and the A314 vs IG threads in my signature block. All three products make for a good base. Ammo will give you a bump with the ladies. And a nice side effect of IG is that it can make older guys seem a bit younger.
Nothing wrong with pheros in the office. A314 and IH is my favorite work combo. Some people prefer Ishine with the A314.
Hi aztigger! I don’t have any advice for you about products as I am new here as well, and just testing out my first items.
I wanted to tell you how refreshing it is to hear someone say they just want to stand out in the crowd, and attract attention on your own merit, not overwhelm all available women with a lusty cloud of pheromones. It makes you more interesting, in my opinion. Of course, the massage thing didn’t hurt either.
Hi moonwhisper. Thanks for the positive comment. Being overwhelming is just not my style, but if a good looking woman threw herself at me, well, I would have to help her out…
