Hi Glow,
I suggest have a good solid read of The Mens Guidethen return and let us know if you have any additional questions.
Based on the info you have provided, I think A314 could be for you, and it might be a good idea to try some togo versions of the socials, eg: Instant Gentleman, Instant Openness, Instant Honesty.
Once you start using, be sure to return and let us know how you go.
The lovelly Tisha should log on soon to provide the next bunch of gift certificates 