Ok, let me try again 
I’m 25, male, and living in New Orleans.
I became interested in pheromones after a friend of mine tried “liquid trust” about a year ago. He noticed that he sold more (he was working in a retail store at the time) but that’s about the extent of the results, and it could have been that he sold more because he had a boost of confidence thinking that he would (placebo effect). I found this site by searching for liquid trust on Google because I was going to order some. I’m glad I didn’t, because this seems like a much better place to learn about pheromones and their effects before buying some generic trust potion that may or may not be effective.
I took an online personality test based on the Jung-Myers-Briggs typology and my results were:
Your Type is
ENFP
Extraverted (44%)
Intuitive (50%)
Feeling (38%)
Perceiving (56%)
Qualitative analysis of your type formula
You are:
- moderately expressed extravert
- moderately expressed intuitive personality
- moderately expressed feeling personality
- moderately expressed perceiving personality
I would characterize my personality type as outwardly outgoing and confident in most situations but inwardly shy and insecure in certain situations.
I am very comfortable talking to people I have just met once we have a common ground, but I have a hard time starting the conversation. If I am introduced by a common friend I can usually take it from there, but I would feel very nervous walking up to a stranger and starting a conversation.
In sales, this translates to me being the “closer” - I prefer to have another salesperson introduce me to the client and I talk to them, earn their trust, and close the sale. I have been told that I have a very kind and trustable face and that I set people at ease. This makes me especially good at closing sales.
However, my personal social interactions tend to go a little differently. Sober, I have a very hard time approaching new romantic interests. I lack the self confidence needed to seem like a potential mate, so if I am successful in initiating a convesation with an attractive female, I usually get stuck in the “friend zone”. I have many beautiful female friends who freely share with me their deepest inner secrets and trust me completely, but would never consider dating me. I have been told I’m like a brother.
When I have had a few drinks, I get a little better at approaching people but I tend to come off as creepy to potential mates. I am very sexually charged and when alcohol is involved I tend to show this side of myself a little bit too openly. Also, alcohol makes me silly and no one takes me seriously after seeing me drink. Guys laugh and girls are scared off.
What I would like pheromones to do for me, if this is possible, is basically help me to become more confident to approach people (new friends, new clients, and romantic interests) and make people more likely to approach me. I find that if someone approaches me I do a lot better than if I have to approach them. Also, when it comes to dating, I need something to give me the aura of a confident, attractive potential mate who is still sensitive and trustworthy (I don’t want to lose those qualities, but I need something to keep me out of the “friend zone”… besides alcohol) and also to maybe give me a boost in status, because a lot of people who know me and have seen me in a social setting (especially when I have been drinking) don’t take me very seriously.
I am also very scientific minded and curious about new things, so I would love to test new molecules and report my experiences on here.
If anyone has specific questions that you feel would help you make a suggestion as to what molecules I should use (or behaviors that I should try) please post them and I will answer. Thanks again for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to growing in knowledge of the power of pheromones!
