well after reading alot of posts in the forums i have decide to join up and get involved.
My real name is dave and im from the Uk im married. i have never been the most confident of people and i have toy’ed with the idea of using pheromons for some time and was never sure they really worked after a bit of a google i was led here and really impressed at the vast wealth of knowledge and adivice. looking for something just to take the edge off and maybe help build up my confidence and be more open with other people and more so my wife.
Ammo is a great product that many start with, it is more so skewed towards attraction though. The social products, like Instant Honesty, Instant Openness and Instant Shine boost my confidence, and I really enjoy wearing them to work and socially. Another fav of mine is A314, another powerful product great for work.
I suggest you have a good read of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any further questions.
There are many married chaps like yourself that post on these forums, you will find their ‘dealing with wives’ threads in the main mens forum.
You’ve found a great community to help you on this!! AlexanderG did great suggestions. I understand that the phero’s might be more to boost your own confidence that to attract. I use Instant Shine for boosting my own confidence. I spray it in my face to get the best results. For other people to open up, Instant Openness and IH are great. IH gives more depth to conversations, in addition to IO
There are quite a few of us married guys now here on the forum. Most of us are looking for the same thing: make things even better at home, work and in our social lives in general.
There is a thread in my signature block for married guys. Give it a read. It will tell you about different products and strategies to use them. Just remember - a lot of guys try to brute force the issue with 'none - like using TUTH. And while there is a place for that I would really recommend using Ammo and IH around her during the day and then using a spray of TUTH as things heat up.
For work my favorite combination is A314 and IH. A314 helps give you a very strong alpha leader vibe and the IH helps people feel connected to you and talk to you about whatever is important.
Hope this all gives you some ideas. Please ask if you have any questions.
If you want to boost your confidence, I highy recommend Instant Gentleman. I am not the most confident guy, normally but I find that I feel very in charge when I wear Instant Gentleman. A very cool, ‘I’m too hip for the room’ sort of alpha vibe that people also seem to positively respond to.