Hi guys,
I am a 27 year old female new to pheromones, and was hoping for some advice on what to purchase to attract a single 39 year old male colleague. I could be reading it all wrong but my gut feeling is that there is something underlying there, he asked me if I was single and why when he was a bit tipsy at our staff Christmas party, but has been somewhat shy towards me since - blushed when I complimented him, awkward small talk, etc.
HI jyh5171 and welcome!
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Sometimes when alcohol gets involved people tend to loosen up and display more of there feelings and how they feel. How do you feel about him?
What I would do in the meantime is maybe find a way to get to him one on one and bring up that you are single to answer his question and see where it goes. I would maybe give him the chance to take that next step and open that door for him. There is a lot of pressure on guys so what I think is important is to have a happy vibe and a more relaxed type of body language so he knows that you are approachable. Then give him a little bit of time to see where this goes.
Now for the pheromones I would look at the Female Wardrobe because it is one complete kit and will have everything you need to get started. The kit has the Instant Sexiness A and B(IS/A and IS/B).
what I would do is start off with the IS/B because it is much easier to figure out and the A is way more in your face loud type(not necessarily in a bad way).
I would start off with this one to see what you get, now the tricky part is if using at work you may have other guys interested in you to and may be the wrong type of environment for this. So the real key here would be getting this guy outside of work to really get the most out of this one.
Then there are 3 socials IO, IH, and IShine.
The IShine will boost your confidence and put him and everyone in a good mood. What I like is this one you can use anywhere and in any environment.
IO will be very valuable to get this guy to open up. IO is an ice breaker and gets people chatty and good for meeting new people to get them to open up.
IH I would start with the IO and then when you get him outside of work and things are going well then switch the IO for this one. This will make the conversations more meaningful and will provide the deep connection and bonding and then you will get to how he really feels with this one.
I hope this helps you. I have actually tested both the IS/A and IS/B and are in my journal if you are interested in reading my report and you can see what it does from a guys point of view and I made an easy to use guide in the link below so you can easily find them.