ammm… hello Rich Dick… 
welcome to pherotalk 
You will find some of the products really helpful.
For the social part of your life.
Start using IO + I.Shine is the perfect way to go.
You can add some IG if you like too… its a very nice combo
I think this will set you up on the right road.
As for parties go for AMMO.
I love this product and i am recommending it allot lately.
When you get more familiar with the stuff you are welcome to ask for more advanced phero combinations
ps: here is some info you should read also:
aaand dont forget to post your age and etc:
https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934
to get your GC