26-yr old male film student here. I live in the Pacific NW, and have had limited experience with 'mones (I have read the stickies and have familiarized myself with the forum’s lingo).
I have tried a gender neutral 'mone I bought online (I won’t mention what or where in respect to the rules) and was AMAZED with the results. I am now looking to expand my knowledge and collection.
About me: I am very athletic and naturally outgoing, but I have been told many times that I am very hard to approach and have had many experiences where I heard second hand that a lady had been very interested in me for long periods of time but had shown no interest.
I can also have a similar effect with guys at school. Lots of guys are extremely intimidated (I am an amatuer boxer) even though I am friendly and accepting of them. I have noticed this ‘threatening’ thing at the gym and at the mall, but it doesn’t really happen at work where people know me.
So naturally I am reluctant to use 'mones, especially 'none. Am I right to start off with IO and IShine? I have also read here that Ammo is essential to have in your stash.
Also, I haven’t found a thread for 'mones to wear at the gym (if any at all), or is your body already producing plenty?
Hey welcome to the forum. That’s funny I had no clue that there were restrictions on what you could name on here. So what did you get?
Honestly IH, IO, and IShine are all very essential in the beginning. IO makes it easier for people to approach you. IH makes those conversations worth it. Kind of adds a bonding feel. I personally like IH more unless I’m going somewhere to a group of people that I don’t know.
I recommend IG to make you appear a bit softer and reliable. Also, A314 would be great, since you already seem pretty manly and alpha. Additionally, I recommend you get AMMO + IShine for clubbings and bars. You might produce a lot of -none already, but ammo is pretty well-balanced that, I believe, you can handle a shot or two of to-go. It is easy as that - one or two sprays to neck or chest!
Finally, like Josie said: don’t forget the socials. IO would help girls open up to you, while IH would help you connect to them easier. GOod luck and welcome!
Hey there!
I train in Muy Thai and am trying to get in the ring once I graduate, I know what you mean when you say you “threaten” some people. I think its more intimidation, and I am going to go against the grain here and recommend Instant Gentleman. It sends off the “good guy” vibe, and I find that in low doses it can help to cut that natural intimidation you might be putting off. I’ve meet plenty of fighters to know that most of the guys that are really into it are some of the nicest people you’ll ever meet when they are outside of the ring, so I can bet you have the personality that will be congruent with IG. The only real jerks involved with combat sports never really seem to last too long.
Pick up some Instant Shine too, it works wonders with IG and is one of my favorite products!
Instant Openness is another good thing to have, it definitely softens any harshness you might be experiencing. Remember though, that harshness is attractive too, so try not to weaken your image too much. You’ll need to experiment to find out whats best for you.
I am mighty glad we have a fighter on our forum or from what I see one of many.
You see John and Steve are lovers not fighters and I need some protection.
The products you mentioned are great to have as your first training tools in most situations for sexual attraction and to feel good and for social interaction. You play around and master these then you can move on to bigger and better things as you will know from reading the men’s forum.
