Hi Thanks for providing more info 
I defiantly think you would benefit from IO and IH or CTTM . CTTM is a 50/50 mix of the 2 mones that make IO and IH.
AMMO would be another great choice
In my signature below there are some useful links to help you understand mones better and how to see hits.
There is also a body language link that I think you should read. Learning BL combined with the mones will really help you be able to see when a girl is interested and will help you to open up more.
Your GC is on its way 
Tisha