First the quick intro. Male, 38, living in Arizona. Now a little longer in hopes of that larger than $25 gc! lol
I’ve been a lurker here for a while, not quite convinced and thinking this is all snake oil, but after reading so many success stories I now have to see for myself. I’ve been hesitant due to finances, but I’m ready for a go.
I came here a couple of years ago after a discussion with a friend who is a biochemist. We had talked about the possibility of increasing our own natural pheromone production. He said it wasn’t possible, but my own interest in natural medicine and holistics had me believing otherwise. After a brief search I ended up here and couldn’t believe that this even exsisted! But why still hesitant? Short answer… bit of a cynic.
I’m more of a science minded person and the idea of using pheromones is something that has intrigued me for sometime. My goals, or rather my interest in using is for work purposes and for self effects. I’ve decided on A314 and something to mix… maybe IH, IO, or IS. The sexual pheros do not really hold much interest for me in the sense of dating and the bar scene, where they do have my interest is for self application. Here’s where I need some seriously advanced help.
I would like to hear from someone who has experimented and has knowledge of some of the more advanced mixes. What I am in search of is something that may heighten my own sexual arousal. Does something like this exsist? I have had this issue for many years and just recently started speaking openly about it with friends. I have great difficultly reaching orgasm unless I’m in a very heighten state such as the intensity of a new sexual partner, or something very erotic from a familiar partner. No other issues in that department, but it makes sex very frustrating and at times I just feel like giving up altogether. I’m wondering if something out there that gives the effects of Spaceland may even work for this purpose? I’m open to any and all suggestions.
Onto my second question now. I need a good at work mix to help facilitate networking. What are suggestions for mixing with A314? I know this may be general so I’d like to expand a little more as this may help you to help me. I’m fairly talkative, intelligent, not bad in the looks department, have an atheletic build, and seem to be generally well received at work by both sexes. I’m sure some of this is due to my own work ethic as I pull my own weight and frequently help others. To advance my career I’m usually dealing with guys 15-20 years older than myself. It’s pretty much a Good Ole’ Boy Club that’s tough to crack. I need to earn their respect and appear to them as an equal or someone of value. So, suggestions?
#1 The problem you are have is not uncommon there are a lot of studies about it, most of them point out that it’s something with the self conscious and your moral code. I just read a thread about TAC about it making it easier and giving better longer orgasms to women and similar effects in men but its an experimone so if it doesn’t work you can’t get your money back for it. But other than that maybe some copulins for a test boost.
#2 A314 I have heard is great for getting respect, never tried it myself but with all the reports I have read I am definantly makeing the investment soon. I think the A314 with some IH would probably work wonders at gaining the co’s respect.
By the way great introduction and welcome back, I’m pretty sure you’ll get the gc.
I can answer question 2 for you…Well, you have answered it yourself infact.
The best pheromone for work is A314, hands down. A314+IH is the best of the best, for work and everyday use. It creates a deeper bond while appearing as a higher status. Some people exeperienced a fall out effect where women stalk them while wearing A314+IH.
Again remember to purchase the to-go bottles to have a test drive first. Once you are convinced that they work, you will come back for the regular bottles.
So, it looks like A314 and IH will be my work combo. I’ll have to look into TAC. Anything that will give me a glimmer of hope is worth a try.
I’ve read some material about my particular issue. It’s something emotional, a connection I must have to reach the pinnacle, so to speak. Since my divorce several years ago I have only been able to freely reach orgasm with one of my ex girlfriends, whom I did care deeply for. It kind of sucks that I have to feel deeply or be in love with the woman. I’m a guy, we’re not suppose to operate like that. lol Unfortunately I don’t see myself in a serious relationship for a few more years until my kids are out the house. My focus is on them and climbing up the food chain. Got to ready for their college tuition!
It’s like on of those deeper things you don’t experience first hand but you know it’s there. I know it’s none of my business or anything but was your ex the one who wanted the divorce? If so it could be you still subconsciously trying to stay faithful to her. It’s weird the way we work. But good luck and I hope all of your wildest dreams come true.
I’m always up for a good read and will have to look into that book!
Dfredi5000, to answer your question, no. I wanted a divorce for a few years before it became offical. I was married to a sociopath, literally. I read two books on the subject to help me understand the whole mind trip she put me and my kids through.
One thing I did not mention is that I have a degenerative spine. Stenosis of the L4 and L5, but my entire spine from the cervical down to S1 is in bad shape. I’ve used a a chiropractor for years. Tried deep tissue, soft tissue massage, hot stones, cranial sacrial, NLP, whatever I could think of! I wonder if this is really the issue? But, I always come back to it being about love and an emotional connection. So, I lean more toward the mental side, but then again, maybe it’s denial and I don’t want to admit that my body is falling apart!
Ahhh I see well like my father told me, ALL women are crazy, it’s just to what extent. Well you could blame that but I would think if you could get it up that the nerves are still working, but I’m not a doctor so I don’t know. It sucks to here about your back though I know how tough that can be. It’s one part of the body that once something happens to it there is no guarantee it will get better.
Getting it up is not a problem. Other than my back issues, I’m pretty damn healthy as I stay physically active as much as my back will allow. My current partner says to me that getting it up isn’t the problem, getting me off is. I can stay up all night, but that leads to chaffing and blue balls.
I believe that the erection is a chemical response while the orgasm is a physical one. Of course, the mental aspect lends itself to the orgasm. It’s just frustrating!
Recently I just spent some time with family in SoCal. My cousin’s wife is an incredible woman and we’ve gotten to be very close friends over the years. She really helped talk me through this and put things into perspective for me. In the end, I really do believe that this comes down to intimacy.
I was raised in a Catholic family, not only that, a military family. Cores and values are huge! I actually waited for sex because of this. My parents use to joke about all my girlfriends back in high school. But I waited until I found the one. Actually, I didn’t find the one, I just figured, “Ok, I’m 18, it’s about time!” And I ended up sleeping with a close friend that I started dating, but I had known for almost 4 years. So there’s the short and simple story. I have no issues about my abilities, my performance, or anything else… I think it’s just the value on where I place sex in this world.
So, back to the issue at hand. I spend my time working and raising my kids. I want productive human being, not useless parasites. My focus is on raising them and not on myself. I figure I can have a relationship when they are out of the house. I know how fast time goes by and 4 1/2 years really isn’t that long. But, I don’t want to go without sex, and I don’t want a relationship either. Kind of a catch 22 in a way… I need the emotional, but don’t want it.
Thaks to listening to my rant. This seems like a very open forum and I appreciate that we can communicate and care for each other in what seems to me to be a very odd way. The internet is great and so different from hanging out with the rich kid who’s parents owned a Comodore 64!
Yeah I understand that and you know what good for you man staying single for the likes of your kids, that’s character. I say throw on some A314 and find you a good, rich women who will pay your kids tuition, haha. If only it were that easy. Yeah but I understand all that it’s a inner battle and just something you got to work on. Maybe talk to a therapists or something. I don’t know it is a complex problem but hopefully you can work through it. Search that TAC on here and see what you think.