Hello! I’m a 25-35 year old, female graduate student living in chilly Michigan. I’ve heard about pheromones since I was a teenager, but never gave it much thought. Actually, I’ve come across the subject matter on several occasions, but never thought I needed it. I always felt like I had no trouble with attraction. I’m usually the “silent flirt”, using my eyes…
Well, fast-forward to my present situation, where I’m suddenly single after a loooong-term relationship gone sour. I’ve been out of the dating scene for so long and I feel like I’ve lost some of my appeal. My gaining a few pounds didn’t quite help the situation. Anyhow, I have decided to approach my situation like I do anything else—with a strategic plan. Here’s what I did:
1: Re-vamped my wardrobe (no wearing scruffy clothes–ever) to pre-breakup conditions.
2. New hair style: dyed off black and straightened, with a few loose curls.
3. Always wear make-up, even when feeling lazy.
I started this about 30 days ago and have seen a significant change in how others interact with me. Now, I want to take it to another level. I want to incorporate the use of various pheromones to see if and how much they actually work. More specifically, I’ve been eyeing a certain gentleman in one of my classes. I want to see if he reacts to pheromones. I’m also curious about the other pheromones, such as, openness, honesty, etc. I’ve heard of sexual pheromones, but not about these other types. How effective are they?
Chilly Michigan? How chilly? You’ll be using mones mostly indoors anyway, but keep in mind that the cold will hinder the distribution of the mones, or rather the carrier of them, the scent package.
VERY good to see you taking hold of your image. I’ve read others whine about that they’ve lost there sexy, but, don’t DO anything about it. I’m glad to see you getting good effects from what you’ve done.
Now, this gentleman that you’re eyeing. What kind of relationship do you have with him now? Where do you want it to go?
I would suggest you give IShine a try along with IS/b to get a comfortable to be around you vibe of IShine with the sexy kittenish feel of IS/b, sort of a Natalie Portman sexy.
For a CTTM type feel, IO and IH in equal parts will be similar. Though, you may need to initiate, smile with interest and use your silently flirty eye’s specialty.
I agree with on Alpha that IShine and think it would also be good to do the IO and IH. I would love for half the girls I come across to be wearing that mix just so I could actually approach them, you could probably even add the IS/b in there.
It also depends somewhat on you as well, not just the mones you are wearing. If you were do to the IS, IO, and IH but weren’t working the mix such as super closed body language or just anything that would make you seem unapproachable guys are going to get confused! So if you are wearing the mix so guys will approach you make sure you look approachable, open/relaxed body language, smiling, and even eye contact will help sell the vibe.
VERY CHILLY! Thank you for the tip about the cold hindering distribution. Does that also mean it will be less effective when I just come in from outside?
Yeah, I had to get my sexy back! There’s nothing like the attention of a man to put a smile on my face. Well, this particular guy is just another student. We usually have very limited conversation, until a few weeks ago when we went out for drinks (after class). We got pretty cozy there. I want it to go as far as I can take it, lol. I just want to woo him, if that makes any sense.
When I was younger, I always had men giving me tons of attention an obsessing over me. I absolutely love that feeling…whether it be many men or one man.
What’s the difference between IS and IS/b? Also, I heard some people mix the two…how effective is that?
Thanks for the advice. So the IO and IH makes a girl more approachable? Boy do I have a lot to learn.
Side Note:
Ok, I can only purchase two for now, which two should I go for?
Also, with pheromones, how close do you have to be for it to affect/attract another person?
You are a lady after my own heart. I basically did the same thing after my last break up but added in gym.
I also had to change my whole perception of guys and relationships
You have to do things for you and to make you feel pretty and confident and he will benefit from it
I suggest you work with your new amazing strategy and these mones to get your sexy back for you and soon when someone comes you will have that confidence to have a better relationship and if things don’t work out it won’t affect you as much
Ppl change and men do to and just like men we need to prepare ourselves to bounce back from the bs.
Like I said, like you I had to get my sexy back and my confidence and I feel more secure with this new relationship to a point where if he lives , meh his loss not mine..
Here’s what I did: