Welcome Incognitus,
You are a lady after my own heart. I basically did the same thing after my last break up but added in gym.
I also had to change my whole perception of guys and relationships
You have to do things for you and to make you feel pretty and confident and he will benefit from it
I suggest you work with your new amazing strategy and these mones to get your sexy back for you and soon when someone comes you will have that confidence to have a better relationship and if things don’t work out it won’t affect you as much
Ppl change and men do to and just like men we need to prepare ourselves to bounce back from the bs.
Like I said, like you I had to get my sexy back and my confidence and I feel more secure with this new relationship to a point where if he lives , meh his loss not mine..
This is life, we live and learn
Good luck!
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