Hi I’m LJ. I’m 31/m from SC. I’m new here bc I have some things I’d like to try. I’m a pretty laid back, quiet, shy person so I don’t get the respect and status I’d like. I just don’t come off as dominant like some guys. I’m also having some problems with my gf not showing as much affection as we used to. The fire has kind of dimmed down and I’d like to spark it again. What would be good to give myself a little more confidence when out and about? And what would be good to help catch the attention of my gf again? Looking forward to hearing from you guys.
Hi LJ123,
Welcome to this forum.
I definitely suggest you get the men’s starter pack. It contains many products that will be useful for you at a fair price.
IShine: This is a mood booster. It helps people around you feel good. It will make you more happy as well. It makes you more approachable.
IOpenness: This is a great social ice breaker, it lets you strike conversations with strangers.
IHonesty: It helps develop trust and bonding with people. It also helps establish a deeper level of conversation than IOpenness.
IGentleman: This product is a status booster. It will give you a wise, mature and dependable aura. People will ask for your advice a lot. It will make you very resistant to anger. It also boost self-confidence.
A314: This helps give out a leadership vibe with a commanding edge. This is a respect-getter. However, you must act consistant with your body language and be congruent. This does not automatically turn the lambda guy into an alpha.
MX297: This is a party product to wear in fun settings (bars, parties…) it can act as a chick magnet.
Ammo: This sends a charming and sexy vibe to the ladies, including your GF, this might help give a boost to the attraction factor.
TUTH: This helps is the bedroom. It’s a sexual product. It helps create sexual tension or ignite passion. This is a must have for you.
You will be eligible to a 25$ gift certificate to help you with your first buy.
If you have other questions, please ask.
Welcome to PheromoneTalk, LJ123!
Your GC is now in your email. 
I’ll second the recommendation of Conjurator above. That pack contains IJ too, useful for those moments where you do not give a damn. Although its better to use it half a spray during your first tries.
Happy Pheroing!
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Welcome LJ,
Your best bet is to look at the Men’s Ultimate Kit. With this there is no guess work because you get everything to try. The real key is testing to see what works best for you and your GF. This way you get everything and there is no guessing at all because you get everything to try.
Being 31 you are at a good age and I say this because when women are around 30 they start changing where they like a stronger status/sexual signature, so there are so many that can work very well for you and Conjurator did a good job explaining them.
If I had to narrow it down for you and starting out I would go with Ammo, TUTH, IO. It is hard to narrow down as I see where they can all help you really.
To come off stronger and not as intimid IG, and A314 will work great for you here.
Good luck and if I can help you out in anyway please let me know.
Hi, welcome. Like reccomended before me, go for A314 in oil form. Out of all the status blends I’ve tried (vendors outside of androtics), I’ve found A314 has the highest status and best self effects. It is a great confidence booster and will help you speak your mind.
The oil, at $109, is expensive but one bottle lasted me 5 months using 2 - 3 drops everyday.