I am new to pheromones and my first order will be arriving today. I ordered Instant Sexiness and Lust After Me. Being a bit skeptical, I want to see if they really work.
Now here is where my dilemma starts. I am in my 50’s and am not involved with anyone. I was thinking about trying one of these on my personal trainer (hot young man) with whom I have a great platonic relationship. We do talk about sex and flirt but neither of us have any desire to really do anything because of the age difference (okay… he is not into old ladies… I’m not sure how I would feel if he were ). Which of the two products should I use? Where should I spray it? How many sprays should I use? I just want to see if he gets more flirty… I do not want to give him thoughts that may confuse him (Yeah… I know… there’s probably not enough pheromones in the world to get this young stud panting after me ).
Welcome to the forum. Its ok to be skeptical as long as your open minded.
I would start with just one product at a time and that would be Instant sexiness. Start with 3 sprays. Since he is your personal trainer he will probably be standing pretty close so you can apply to wrists, chest and neck. If your going out put a spray in your hair. The movement of your hair as you walk kinda spreads the mones around. When I apply I try to do it in a sweeping motion covering as much skin as possible with the spray. The first few time I wore mones I didnt notice anything. I dont know if it mixes with your natural mone signature but they seem to get better after the first few applications.
Remember this is just a enhancer so dont get discouraged. Testing and figuring out what works for you can be lots of fun. Good luck
Instant Sexiness has a confidence vibe to it as well and actually has only a small amt of cops (ah, vs the please let us drop and have sex NOW level of Lust After Me and EoW’s cops levels), so this is not a DANGEROUS phero to use in public. Your intentions will not be mixed.
Personally, I am also on BC (lowers/eliminates cop prod), so when i start with the higher cops levels pheros, I’m inclined to wear 1 spritz to sort of bring me up to being my 30s. Observe. Then if ok, try 2 spritzes. I wouldn’t go beyond 3 spritzes of Lust After Me in a daily usage. Well maybe 4, but you know what I mean. I am looking to be WAY attractive but I do not seek to confuse. Merely attract.
He’ll probably just be SO open and rapport happy with you. “Wow, I just feel SO comfortable talking with her about the threesome I’ve always wanted to try out. You ever thought of having one?” lol! Part of what he’ll pick up on will be YOUR super amazing self-confidence.
Young,
since the LAM i know comes in a dropper,
i would use till just before the scent got strong-
add a few drops to your palm and then rub into your arms or legs or torso, YlangYlang is a strong scent and also has androstenol in it, too much and you’ll feel it .
If April is reffering to something new, i might call Jasmin to see what the dosages are.
i call jasmin about everything
My mistake in referencing. All the mones I have are in spray form. I assumed erroneously that LAM came in spray form as well. Since it is a POWER COP mone, that is why I was saying limit to 3 spritzes until you KNOW. However, since it comes in a liquid/drop form, my point would be start with a TOUCH to check your results. OBSERVE. Then add small amount to small amount.
I use Instant Sexiness A just about daily and use 3 spritzes. But ISa has only a small amount of Cops. So, I feel OK to do that with daily wear and being a the office. My take without yet having the POWER COPs mones for us who are older than early 30s (when perimenapause can kick in with less cop prod) as well as on BC or used if for awhile resulting in no-very low cop prod is that I can use a POWER COP mone daily but only a VERY small amount. My thinking is doing that (could be wrong, this is my theory) would bring me up to a younger woman’s personal production of COPs when she is even just in public.
Again, theories. Experiment for yourself and observe. I think it would be FABULOUS to curl his toes a little, your PT. He won’t know what’s going on. He’ll just find you PARTICULARLY FABULOUS.
It looks like my post from yesterday never made it out of moderator review . I’m hoping that putting it as a reply in a thread that already got approved will prevent it from not appearing.
My experience with Instant Sexiness and my PT. I followed Tisha’s advice and put it on my wrists, chest and neck. I did 3 squirts all together. I am really not sure if it worked. My PT was upset because he was having major girlfriend problems. We spent the entire session talking about that. This is normal. What was strange was that the entire time that he was telling me how angry and upset he was, he had this silly grin on his face. Could the Instant Sexiness have taken the edge off?
As for me, I did feel a bit wierd. Not sexier, just wierd . There was one other trainer at the studio with a very well built man who was going to enter a show (where they get judged on their physique). So he was in work out shorts only being taught how to pose. Normally I would have difficulty keeping my eyes off his chest , but this time it was not an issue. I was totally focused on my PT… kind of felt like we were in our own little world. Now this could just have been me as I get that way sometimes.
Tonight I am going out with my two best friends to celebrate one of their birthdays. These are two gay men. Jasmin included a sample of Instant Shine. Would that be okay to wear tonight. I want something that will make us feel good (though we normally do when we get together) and not anything sexual.
Keeping my fingers crossed that when I hit submit, I don’t see the moderator review message .
OK… I just tried posting my experience a second time (this time on this thread) and it went into moderator review also. I was really looking forward to participating in this forum but am about to give up. I don’t mind my posts being reviewed but it seems to take forever (the one from yesterday still hasn’t shown up).
Thanks Lor. If it’s a glitch, then I can wait until it’s fixed. I make a living as a computer consultant so I know these things can happen. I just thought because I was new, my stuff was being reviewed… which is okay also if the review was prompt.
I’ll repost on Monday if my previous posts don’t show up by then.
These posts are not really being reviewed by a moderator - it’s a system glitch. It’s happening to all of us. Longer posts (and maybe multiple paragraphs) seem to trigger it, going by what I experienced last night. Try breaking your post up into shorter ones, like 3 lines, and see what happens.
I asked this in my missing posts but thought I’d ask again. I’m going to dinner with two gay guys tonight. Is Instant Shine okay to use? I want something not sexual.
). Which of the two products should I use? Where should I spray it? How many sprays should I use? I just want to see if he gets more flirty… I do not want to give him thoughts that may confuse him (Yeah… I know… there’s probably not enough pheromones in the world to get this young stud panting after me 
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. If I don’t see it appearing by tomorrow, I will try and re-submit it.
. There was one other trainer at the studio with a very well built man who was going to enter a show (where they get judged on their physique). So he was in work out shorts only being taught how to pose. Normally I would have difficulty keeping my eyes off his chest 
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