Welcome to Pherotalk! I used to be in a very similar situation as yourself and with the help of this site and some PUA material was able to better myself and my situation. First off, it seems that your giving off a pretty good sense of comfort but not enough attraction.
Ammo would be your best bet at adding that extra attraction that your looking for. Ammo is a great all around product and gives off a great masculine, sexy, alpha male vibe.
My personal favorite is Instant Gentleman, which gives off that older, masculine, protector vibe. Would actually be better for conveying to women that you want a long term relationship.
Remember the search function is your best friend here! Good luck with your future experiments!
P.S. If you believe your game needs some fine tuning, Kimba has a great thread: