"Not a Journal" Journal

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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So just to clarify, I currently don’t have much intention of making this into a regular journal with daily entries and test results.

So why do this then? Am I just trying to take up forum space? :open_mouth:

Well sorta but not really. Basically the idea was that I got a good but very unexpected hit yesterday and thought how much more random hits like this will happen and wanted to jot them down. So my goal is more for reflective purposes and a bit of a rant. I plan to record my successful hits, mostly because I don’t get much chances to use them on random or non-work related people of the opposite sex. So I thought it’d be a great idea to record my hits (trying to be as specific as possible) so that I can reflect back on them later when I want to reuse a mix. That way, I can see how I acted while having that mix on so that I can know what kind of attitude produces what results from the mix. Of course if my hit count get soo high (fingers crosses :smiley:) then maybe it might become more journal-like.

Hope it can be of some use or at least entertainment!
Feel free to comment and as always, thanks for reading :slight_smile:

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“Not a Journal” Journal 1/16/11

So the event that started everything (not really, haha)
Date: 1/16/11

Mix:
2 spray IG (front of neck)
2 spray IO (wrist)
2 spray IH (wrist)

Scenario: a friend I haven’t seen in 2 months was able to hang out since I was in town and subsequently invited me to party an old friend of his throws regularly (not an alcohol based, more of a get together to play boardgames and system games, and yes very nerdy :smiley:) People are around 30 or so I think and the only person I knew was my friend, no one else.

So yea, before we left his house to go, I sprayed the mix outside my car and left with him to go to the party. Initially there were 3 guys (excluding me) and a girl. Starting off I was doing my regular shy guy routine when I’d be in the background of every conversation occasionally commenting, nodding and laughing. Then after about 3 mins or so a new character arrived on stage (we’ll call her “A”, she’s on the short and kinda big side, also she’s east asian, everyone else is either east asian or indian). So first physical impressions were a meh, don’t wanna give a number so I’ll say middle to lower tier (the 1st girl was deep in the bottom tier). So yea, she arrived and started talking with the other girl for a bit. I started feeling a little less socially awkward before “A” came so that comfortableness was not applied to “A”.

Still doing my shy routine when the host decided to play a board game (some weird japanese one, but fun and addicting) So we sat down 3 to a side, I was 2nd to last to sit so it was whether across from “A” on one end or on the other end across from my friend. Well I don’t know what people will view this, but I went with the seat across from “A” (I wasn’t too close to my friend and I wasn’t feeling too socially awkward anymore (probably mones) So yea, the game definitely was good for making talk better between the two of us (this was both of our 1st times). Usually that’s my problem is having something to mutually talk about, but once that happens then I can run off of that. Don’t know why but I was actually kinda sarcastic with her (this is weird because I am never sarcastic with strangers, I am a very cautious with words person, and I am only sometimes sarcastic with friends, but even then it’s not too often) It help that she was sarcastic too, don’t remember who started the sarcasm tho.

Then another guy arrived. He is very sociable and sarcastic jerk (so not really a jerk or anything, but that’s how his sarcasm is), very funny person to be around, kinda like the jerk that get the girls. So to be honest, when he joined and started being sarcastic with everyone, especially “A”, I had a mental “oh crap, he’s on my territory” lol (as you can tell from that I can be a little insecure, but of well, it makes me me). So yea, I was a little worried because she started devoting most of her attention towards him. However, I don’t know how "A"s attention got back on me (maybe mones :roll_eyes: maybe something else, who knows… actually I think it’s because he might’ve went too far with his sarcastic jerkiness with “A”, no real long term effect for the night, but it got her attention on me again :wink:) The other thing though is after that I started be a lot more sarcastic, but that was good with making talk between “A” and I.

After that the rest of the night went pretty well, we definitely talked a lot more after that before she had to leave for another party. It died down for me after she left, other people came and went (pretty much all guys) but it was mostly just chill for me, nothing else memorable. But one thing that I liked and though was interesting, was that about 30 mins before “A” left, she pointed to the sarcastic guy and said he’s mean (not too serious, but not like laughing either), but then she pointed at me and said something like mean or interesting or something, but was like totally enjoying it/laughing so that was tight (I was kinda tired so didn’t remember too well). I really wanted to reapply mid party, but couldn’t since I didn’t bring them because I rode with my friend. The host said he’ll invite me later, and hopes are the other girl comes, so I look forward to that.