Welcome Patrick!
It’s very sad with your wife. I can understood your feelings. But yes, pheromones can help you. First, for self effects and respect is A314 your choice, it makes you more alpha and cool and gives you more value. Most women react impressed and more submissive. The mood enhancer is Instant Shine. For sexual action is TUTH or Instant Jerk (here also jerk effects), a must have.
IG is charisma, a A314 light, but for younger women the right choice. IH is trust and deep conversations and IO the icebreaker but light and alone beta. Ammo is the all around.
I would say take A314, TUTH and Instant Shine and you have a really good start.
Don’t forget your gift certificate, I think you have it: How do I qualify for a $25 gift certificate?
A general view:
What works: BUSINESS APPLICATIONS (sales, meetings, etc)
What works: CLUBBING/"PROWL" MIXES (eg sex: as in One Night Stands)
The Snook's big book o' pheros for rookies
What "Unanswered" means and how to select the best answer to your questions
Good luck Patrick, this stuff will cheer you up!
Johnny