Product: MX335
Application: 4 sprays, to neck and cleavage area, on wrists and behind ears
Product: Come Talk to Me
Application: 2 sprays to wrists
Cover: none
Self-effects: felt confident and ready to go. I self tested alone for about two hours, with no other reactions noticeable.
Environment: indoors, @ 80F
Effect on others: When the pheros were about two hours old, I went to hubby’s workplace. He had some items there he wanted me to pick up, and it’s such a good place to test out pheros, as he works with a mostly male bunch, but the ages range from teen to sixties, so I get to see how they respond from a large age range. There are some ladies there, too.
I go in and talk to the hubby, he leaves to get the items while I talk with some of the guys. One young guy, about 17, tells me how he hit a deer with his truck this a.m. and the truck is pretty smashed up, but he is alright. Some other guys start showing up, even this one man, ‘T’ who is friendly but very reserved. He always says hello and is very nice, but he does not really join in the group discussions. To have him come over and talk and tell stories was quite a surprise.
After a little bit I look around and behind me and there is this small crowd of men all around me, not a woman in sight. I am enveloped on all sides! They are telling stories about hitting deer with their cars, and it quickly morphs into a contest, see who can top this? type of event. I catch a lot of glances, more eye contact than normal, but it is not sexy or flirty as much as looking for approval. One guy brings me a soda, which has never happened before.
So hubby comes back from wherever he went to get his stuff, and just stops and stares. I think he was a little surprised to see me caught in this ring of men. Now I don’t know if it was a residual feeling from being exposed to the copulins before that made him so possessive, or if it was the MX335. He is normally very laid back, and does not seem to care about the attention other men pay to me. This time, however, he pushed his way through so that he could stand directly to my right. He grabs my hand and holds it, sort of running his thumb over my fingers, over and over again. Not satisfied with that, he lets go of my hand, puts his left hand on the small of my back and starts rubbing small circles there. After a couple more minutes he stands behind me and does both, holding my right hand with his right hand, and keeping his left on the small of my back. He has NEVER been this possessive with me before, but this time he is fairly bristling with energy, and all the guys can tell.
The start to take a step back, or two until there is a little clear space around me. Previously they were within 1-2 feet from me, but now there is an empty space around the two of us that is at least 4 feet wide.
The whole thing makes me think. I’m feeling like purring. I wish I could duplicate his behavior on demand. I just adore a confident, aggressive, somewhat possessive man, and my husband has never been that way. It leaves me feeling a little unappreciated. So what do I owe this change to? The copulins yesterday? They were surely washed away by now. The MX335? It did have the effect of making me the center of attention, at least at 4 sprays. I can’t remember if I’ve worn it around the hubby before, or just to work. Then there was CTTM, but he’s not shown any possessiveness from that before.
So back to experimenting. I love MX335, and I like the smell. I have MX135 and MX235 coming shortly, so I’m going to try it out in other scents. I’m really looking forward to the cookie scent.
I am signing a new lease on Saturday and we will be moving next week. I’ll be so glad when that’s over, I’m sick of boxes.
Everywhere I look there are boxes, I can’t find anything, and I’m barking my shins on stuff every time I get up in the dark. But our next place is a house with 1 acre yard, 4 bedrooms and I have my own bathroom in the master bedroom. So that is exciting! We have had just 1 bathroom for all of us for two years now… I am looking forward to peeing alone. 