I’m open to any advice anyone has to offer. I’m in my mid-forties and am still new to using pheromones. I’ve been applying A314 at least once a day since the beginning of the week. I’ve been using two drops, one behind both my ears, the other rubbed between my wrists, as recommended on the Andriotics web site. So far, I haven’t noticed any difference at all in my interactions with other people. About the only effect I’ve noticed is a minor self-effect—a mild calming sensation that seems to linger throughout the day.
The other night I went to a small get-together—a little over twenty people in a room approximately 12’ x 15’ for about two hours. Just before heading out, I reapplied A314 as described above. I then added four shots of Ammo 2x, one on each wrist and one behind each ear, the same places I had applied the A314. There were three women at the party whose attention I wanted to get, all older than thirty. I connected with each of them casually—hello, small talk, etc.—for a minute or so. All three of them then attached themselves to other men and didn’t pay any attention to me for the rest of the night.
Does anyone have any suggestions? Given my age, should I be using a lot more of this stuff? Should I be applying it elsewhere? I can’t imagine it would do any good to put it on a part of my body that’s going to be buried under my clothes anyway, would it?
Two suggestions. One is to make a physical change in your appearance to give familiar people a focal point for their feelings about you. For instance changing your haircut. This gives their subconcious something concrete to ascribe their feelings to. That’s the most immeadiate way to get A314 “hits”, and a good way to judge your sweet spot for dosage.
The other suggestion takes longer but is far more satisfying. Just keep using it like you have been. 2 drops a day, take a day or 2 off each week to prevent build up, and wait. You should see peoples attitudes toward you change slowly over a period of weeks. Listen for what folks are saying when you aren’t around- the grapevine is your friend.
Reactions from strangers should be more pronounced and you may be able to tell a difference in the way strangers interact with you when you are wearing and when you aren’t.
Next time you go to a get together leave the re-app of A314 out and cut the 2x ammo back to just 2 sprays. Keep changing amount until you find what works. Good luck!
And it sounds like Renny is right about the Ammo at the get together - you went too high with the Ammo if the ladies were attaching themselves to other men - they may have done so for “protection” from too high a 'none signature on your hand.
Okay, I’ve now been using A314 daily for two weeks straight. I’ve increasing my “dosage” from two drops to three. I think I might finally be seeing some results–only they’re really not results that I want.
I’ve had the experience a few times over the past few days of going into a store and having a male clerk or salesman suddenly become very chatty. It isn’t just that they want to answer my questions or provide me with good service. They seem to want to have a whole conversation with me and to be my best friend. I’ve had to practically tear myself away from these conversations.
Does this sound like it might be an effect of the A314? If so, it’s not a terrible reaction, just not a particularly desired one. I should point out that it’s only men who seem to be responding this way; I still haven’t noticed any difference in how women respond to me in any context.
It’s the job of the salesman to find out what you need. If you’re giving off the vibe of someone to be respected, and you are congruent with that vibe, they just may work extra hard to make sure your satisfied. Or, they may want to be in your company, thus a prolonged conversation. So yea, it could be. It manifests in people in different ways.
Did you drop the ammo altogether? Anything else mixed in? Maybe trie a little Instant Honesty or Openess.
If you want to end a conversation quickly, all you need to do is let them finish their sentance and extend your hand for a handshake, then say “Thank you for your help. Have a good day.” Then turn and walk away. Shaking of hands is a common sign of opening and closing a conversation. For closing a conversation, it should be assisted with a verbal cue IMO, such as the one I wrote above. You have to be firm about it, but not rude.
Musky’s got it bang on there. You are being seen as the alpha male, you are starting to be the alpha male. The salesmen are going out of their way to please the alpha male and be seen by other men to be in your favour.
Thanks, gentlemen. I haven’t been using anything other than A314 regularly. The sprays I use only when I know I’m going to be in a social situation where they’ll be appropriate. This weekend I’m going to be around a lot of women, so I plan to use the Ammo along with the A314.
Totally an effect from A314 - one of the biggest things I noticed when I first started with the stuff was the tendency of one of my male co-workers to linger around my desk for an eternity when I had the stuff applied.
Guys who aren’t leaders LIKE to hang around the leader - A314 sends the signal out that YOU ARE THE LEADER.
Go with it - soon enough the ladies will start to notice how you are the center of attention and everyone seems to like/trust/respect you. (Grapevine effect mentioned above)