I did some searching (not super extensive) and I couldn’t find a specific thread on this topic. I’ve always gotten along better with and been attracted to older women, I’m 21 by the way. I havent perfected any mixes or combos that work well. Some are hit and miss and other times it seems better just to stick with stuff like turn up the heat or Ammunition alone so theres no other feelings getting mixed up. I just wanted to find out if anyone had any good tips or tricks to attract older women?
There must be dozens of threads on this TBH - Try sticking “Cougar” into search! 
Yes, you are probably on the right track. The general situation is that older women are liable to be responsive to higher doses of none and you need less of the socials to balance the mood/paralell feelings as they are often more comfortable with their sexuality and what they want from a man.
What has worked well with women in my age (mid-30s +) range includes:
Heavy Ammo and IO or IH
ICM1.0/MX301 - Formula now released.
MX297/390 and straight none - You do need to work this one hard in a fun/social direction. Go-laugh and dance your/her heart out! 
IJ+IH+P74 - This is strong none, although moderately balanced so watch for aggression from guys and extreme positive/negative responses from women. Don’t waste your time on a negative.
IJ+A314 - Takes a lot of the Jerk out of IJ and replaces it with substance and a strong willed “man of the world” vibe. Can also land you in deep shit.
The very best I’ve found with mature women who also know what they want is A314 oil in a fairly high dose plus a small amount of TUTH in a fairly sexually charged environment - clubs etc - You need to be highly congruent with it but if you can carry it off, the “man of few words and unashamed sexuality” vibe is superb. Don’t wear this to work or the church social! 
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For non-AD products, you may also find useful info and mixes in the current crop of NPA threads and anything about Alter Ego is also worth a look. These have all demonstrated their sutability for use around older women.
Well Cougar implies I want to hit it and quit it and I don’t want that I want them to want to come back to me for repeat performances I dont wanna say the R word and jinx things but def looking for more than a fling but with older women it seems makin them feel sexually wanted lures them in so thats waht im looking to pindown.