Hi New User - Welcome to Pherotalk! 
For a non-Androtics pheromone, SOE is a good choice. Its creator is actually a member here and posts interesting stuff in the science forum.
However, it does puzzle me why you say you don’t want a none-based phero and then buy TUTH - Which is exactly that, an overtly sexual mix with none as its main component, which is a good thing for enhancing passion with a partner, its primary purpose.
Maybe you should have a shufty through this thread, The first post of which links to explainations of the basics of all AD’s pheros and effective use:
In the meantime, if you are looking for effective social pheros that are most suitable for folk your age, I suggest the socials - Instant Shine, IO, IH and the light status mix IG, which is a great “cool guy” mix based on Androsterone. All of them are right in the frame for what you describe.