Hi,
I am new to pheromones and am looking into ordering my first bottles as we speak. I think I’m going to get instant sexiness and a bottle of either instant openness or instant honesty, but I just realized I’m not sure what the differences between the two are. Does anybody have any advice? I’m trying to spice up things with my boyfriend 
Hi MidnightBlaze. Welcome to the forum.
Basically the difference in the two is the differing amounts of their main components, alpha and beta androstenol.
Alpha androstenol is a heavy-duty social pheromone. It creates lots of good feelings and the desire to communicate… a lot. It is a very chatty pheromone.
Beta Androstenol is also a social pheromone, but its effects are quite different from the alpha. Beta Androstenol encourages feelings of deep trust and rapport.
Instant Openness is is much higher in alpha androstenol than beta androstenol. It encourages open and easy communication, and a lot of good comraderie.
Instant Honesty is much higher in beta androstenol than alpha androstenol. It encourages communication of a much more personal nature, even stuff that may really surprise you.
You will get much more chattiness with Instant Openness and much more intimate information with Instant Honesty.
Diane
To spice things up with your boyfriend, I suggest Instant Honesty. It allows for deeper conversations. He will be prone to openning up more to you. It’ll help him be more comfortable with you. I’ve used Instant Honesty on my girlfriend, and she opened up sexually because she became more comfortable, more open, and closer with with me.
I feel you don’t need Instant Opennes seeing as you and your boyfriend’s communication levels are probably most likely fine. It just pretty much makes you more approachable with conversation.
Which ever you go with; if you can afford it get double strength. Read the threads and look at the number of sprays and concentrations that people are using (pretty high concentrations … most seem 8 sprays or greater of the standard concentration); it will save you some money by getting the stronger product plus reduce the amount of neroli scent that you will be wearing. Welcome aboard.
Or do like I do and splurge on some straight beta androstenol. (It cuts out the chatter.) It is really a very nice adjunct to profoundly moving sex.
Diane
I;m just concerned about using instant honesty because he has had some uncertainty about our relationship lately, and I’ve been trying not to talk about it with him so he can have more ‘space’. I don’t want to do anything that’s going to encourage him to tell me everything that is on his mind about it, because I really think it’s a passing thing (we’re long distance for the summer) and I don’t want to worsen the problem.
Space IS what you two need. If he is away for the summer, then I don’t see how pheromones can help you out in this situation, but I feel in order for a relationship to work, you must tell each other your feelings. Space is a good thing, but don’t eliminate interaction with him. Just limit it. I suggest maybe get Instant Sexiness to make him want you more and revive his desire to be with you for when he gets back.
That’s what I’m saying. Like obviously they can’t like, fix this completely.
We see each other every few weeks and don’t talk ALL the time like we used to. He says we’ve been doing better, but he isn’t 100% etc. Like we talk, I just don’t wanna get too heavy into talking about our problems when we are doing fine at the moment. I just wanna spice things up a bit.