P51Mustang's Journal

Awesome. Glad that doors are opening for you. Make sure you look at the long run. Choose the one the best lines you up for the next part of your life.

Congratulations but you deserve it. If you’re anything like you are here on the forum a company would be nuts to not hire you. Then again a lot of companies do things to seemingly go out of business :smiley:

Thanks Steve,

I actually turned down one company today. They’re a big 3 player in the field but something about my gut told me not to go there.

Pheromone: PX.2 12.5mcg
Venue: Work
Temps: Low 70’s low humidity, outdoors low 50’s moderate humidity
Application Points: Side of neck 1x

Self Effects: I had the same feeling yesterday, the drive in I was daydreaming a bit but the drive was much less anxious, I was more relaxed and thoughts were flowing very vividly. This might have a calming effect on me at this mcg range because I am less snippy at this point but yet I can still say what’s on my mind. Take it very lightly when I say this has P75ish feelings in terms of saying what’s on your mind when situations come up where most people would hold their tounge. It’s like an A-Hole response but it doesn’t demean or degrade people but rather my responses are blunt to socially awkward or inappropriate conversations. I thought that it could have been that I stopped cold turkey with cigarettes but this was different from snipping at someone rather than telling someone or asking someone why they said/did certain awkward or situationally inappropriate behavior.

Effects on Others: I was speking with a different set of co-wrokers this morning. My time at this office is winding down and I’m just genuinely looking to spend time with my co workers, do as much sales as possible, and leave the office well off after I leave, afterall I do care about these people and want to make the transition with me leaving this office as smooth as possible. They probably won’t get any permanent replacement for me for a few months so It’ll be a little rough the next couple of months going forward. We had a buddy effect going when I was talking to some of the guys, and we were all just sharing stories and having a good genuine time. What I did notice away from baseline though is that usually when I have the floor speaking, no one interrupts, but today it was interuptions on a consistent basis. It wasn’t annoying but I just noticed it differently today than it has been in the past. I still have some co-workers bugging me and following me around, which I don’t get for the life of me why they just don’t get the hint. The reactions to me have been more subdued yet they are not aggressive but more empathic in nature. It’s hard to describe the change I see in people but the best description I can say is more caring, little brother type of aura with affection in the platonic level.

So far, it’s only been 1 day of testing, but 12.5 mcg of this Putative has been working out well.

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^LOL^ I was carrying my macbook from outside smoking a cigar on the porch enjoying the weather. When I set it down on the desk it said thanks for posting. Low and behold that’s what you get :slight_smile:

I always learn more and more about social interactions and what part the pheromones do play.

I’ve chronicled and studied my testing and usage patters around this place I’ve frequented and just haven’t worn mones around there as much as I used to. There was a good six month period where I was testing various products and mixes because it was one of the best testing grounds to meet new people.

Over the last few times most of you have read that I’ve gotten some great results and great interactions without any pheromones on. Even today I was getting the trustworthy, but friend vibe from the girls there. I mean I can only expect to get that vibe because that’s the one that I’ve exuded. Wasn’t really ever interested in anyone there except D, like P would be in that category but that’s about it. Granted also most of these girls are good looking but I realized that the A314 vibe that I’ve given off most of the time has helped, along with the personality and just not hitting on them and being “real”. DHV was definitely there and works well. At a point I was just there hanging with the entire staff. The power that socials and A314 bring are very good and very real. The fluid and congruent actions that you bring to the table will help your social interactions the most. I know most of the people might think you’re just that “friend zoned” person, but is not the case because there is still that tension there with some of them that I’ve established, just the ones I chose to keep platonic are the ones I keep platonic.

The congruency and signature will last for as long as you keep being congruent with how you started off. For anyone that is looking to make lasting impressions work on yourself along with the pheromones, it will definitely go a long way. I’m IMPRESSED by the “hits” I’ve gotten without mones, however some of the effects with mones just speed up the process.


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I forgot to add and mention to the report as well that I was just opened by a girl that was sitting there next to me. I wasn’t really interested and I was playing almost the facilitator between her and one of my friends that works there. I had an inkling I was getting blatantly hit on, she was initiating the conversation and just kept flowing with it and asking me more and more personal questions. It’s funny that women will just start asking you about yourself when you don’t reveal anything. The mystery and aura that you can create by giving general answers are just plain out a smack in the head for me, I’ve read about it, I’ve tried it, but first hand epiphany experience was just like wow, this shit does work. Many of the other reports I’ve read, amongst them more of the PUA’s like Rad and Steve, show their comfort level with the opposite sex. As I analyzed what happened today in depth I realized that even though I was dressed straight outta the gym, wasn’t really in my dressed to impress look, that I was relaxed, my body took up space, I was leaning back, arms out, and comfortable. I wasn’t getting into their personal space but rather it was a group aura setting when we were all just having fun. I didn’t realize how much time passed because we really were having fun and just BSing around. I ended up just being courteous to that other girl there, she was by herself and kinda felt bad cause she was new to the area. It’s really really important to put these things into practice to really know how powerful and effective they are.

that’s a pretty profound statement, as I have also notice being off for 2 or so months times when “hits” happened sans mones and it kinda made me momentarily quizzical…like hmmmm wow, that was ME that did that.

I experienced moments like that also during my hiatus from pherotalk. One thing that self-improvement has done for me is make more much more socially competent which in turn has allowed me to see results from pheros I normally wouldn’t see.

For example, about a year ago I couldn’t for the life of me get the same effects others were getting from MX297 save for one BIG hit on a waitress. I didn’t use MX297 for awhile until this year. After going through so much effort to improve myself I went to a party with 3 sprays MX297 and low and behold I saw the effects! But the difference between that party and the others was that I made an effort to actually be proactive and mingle which meant I was being congruent with the signal which of course means…hits.

Good to hear of your progress P51 and I’m looking forward to your future reports as well.:slight_smile:

PS: I forgot to mention this earlier but welcome back Happytappin!:smiley:

It is so nice to read you guys’ perspetive and see that at the end of the day, we just want to be appreciated for who we really are.

P51Mustang, you rock on this forum and you’re very helpful. I am pretty sure you rock out there, in the field as well.

Thank you, I appreciate that. Glad my Journal could somehow shed some light on the guys side of things.

Wait…P51 is a guy? ZING! :open_mouth::smiley: :stuck_out_tongue: LOL jk buddy.

crosses off BG for the super secret P51 version of ICM/PS which works 60% of the time, everytime

and add’s smellymen2002

I was in such a rush this morning I forgot to bring out the bottle I was supposed to test out. So pretty much I was phero free for a while, I don’t recall when the last time I wore anything was, during testing last week of PX.2. I’ve actually gone out several times and really really surprised at the results.

Previously I mentioned how I went to visit one of my friends at work, and since it was slow I was just bsing with the rest of the staff there, which were all females. Most of them are taken, my friend included so our conversations are fun and friendly. Nothing boring but nothing too flirty or anything like that.

Anyways the next day, my friends and I usually go there to catch some beers and food. I know most of them so it’s always a homely cheers feeling over there, that’s part of why I love going there. Anyways as I was sitting there with my friends, one friend I knew, passed by and in passing I just said hi, something that kinda took me by surprise she like gave me a smile and lightly pinched my cheek. Honestly, I don’t think much of it besides the comfort level I’ve established with them. Anyways, I get back to talking to my friends and my friend whom I visited the previous day was working, totally didn’t know she worked that day so when she came by she only really knew me, and I introduced her to the rest of my friends. Z has always been really friendly, with everyone, bubbly personality and everyone loves her cause of her carefree spirited attitude. Everyone I know thinks this girl is gorgeous, typically pretty face girl next door look. It’s funny most of the guys I introduce her to won’t talk or even look at her. She actually mentioned it to me under her breath when one of the guys I was there with wouldn’t even make eye contact with her, so gentlemen, women notice these things, remember that. Because I don’t really think of her like that, I’m able to be my normal ball busting self and we do have some good banter back and forth, it’s not like how it ever was with D, but nonetheless my friend was asking me if I was talking to her, which I hate getting asked cause its so pointless especially since I’ve made it clear to them, I don’t try with the girls at this place for a reason. Anyways there was another girl there my friend loves to go back and forth with that he’s absolutely in love with and just again, babbles.

What have I learned over the last few days? Something I should have learned years ago. Your attitude will determine where you will stand with women. I can tell you that some of these guys I know that I’ve brought around there get more girls than I do. A majority of the time they’re first choice, and I’ve always wondered why or attributed it to preference and looks. However every single one of these girls there are good looking and I have no problem talking to them. Case in point, one of the guys I was with, disqualified himself automatically already because of the lack of eye contact and manning up. My other friend, who’s smooth with women couldn’t even hold the convo that long, I was actually surprised how that happened, to all people him. I’m not saying I got these girls attracted to me and wanna get with me, which for the majority of the cases, it’s completely friendly, but I didn’t DQ myself right away I’m still in the game if I went another route, which did work with D, and do certain extent G and S.

It’s really almost like a step by step process.

Composure
Eye Contact
Smile
Speaking with inflection and purpose
Slow and Steady
Deliberate actions
Pausing

I can name more, as time goes on and on, I know I’ve read these, but when these things happen naturally and works wonders I can’t help but just look back and smile and smack myself at the same time for not realizing it.

I like to write this in my Journal too so I can remind myself as I look back and the epiphanies that I have in this Journey.

Thank you all for listening

I like when you write in this journal too. Believe it or not, although we are in different stages of life, a lot of what you learn still applies to my life. I was at a leadership meeting yesterday for a youth group that I just started mentoring. One of the teen leaders there said that he likes coming to the place because people make eye contact there. He can’t get it anywhere else. I thought that was a profound statement. We look for eye contact. It’s what connects us.

I just wrote this great response and now it’s gone. that’s annoying. Anyway I was saying that I went to a leadership meeting last night for the youth group I mentor. One of the teen leaders there said that he likes coming to our events, because people make eye contact. It’s the only place he gets that. Just goes to show that people need eye contact. It’s what connects us.

Actually guys should always disqualify themselves during the initial attraction phase but in a fun way. However not making eye contact is displaying low value in ones self. Psychologically there’s a big difference between the two. Disqualifying yourself leads her to invest more into the interaction, thus actually qualifying herself to you. :slight_smile:

Lowering your value by not making eye contact says you have placed her on a pedestal based on her looks. Its one of the worst mistakes a guy can make in any interaction regardless if its a guy or girl. I practice that every person is equal, unless proven otherwise. Even then value can only go down. I never assign anyone value greater than my own. So where as someone might have a value higher in one aspect of their life, there are areas that I have more value. In the end it evens out.

I approach every interaction with the ultimate goal to leave them and myself with more value than begun with. There are so many interesting people in the world. Most guys cannot get over a woman’s luck in genetics to get to know her.

Great analogy there P51, just thought I’d throw my thoughts in :slight_smile:

You know I’m pretty new to this.

When you get the time could you give an example or a tip on disqualifying in a fun way? I don’t know if I do this already subconsciously or it’s something that I have to try out next time around.