It was suggested that I should try some P74 with my situation. It doesn’t list much for details and I have found varying results in searches…
Would like to hear from actual users, preferably around my age of 35, as to what their experiences have been with using it before I buy a bottle of my own.
P74 is a very interesting one. “Instant Boyfriend” has been appended to P74’s name many times before.
It is an excellent none moderator, it has good connection/bonding/closeness/trust and comfort properties, it does not conflict with A314, so is brilliant in proffessional/status/trust/expert combos and it forms a “greater than the sum of its parts” combination with IH - forming one of the core fallout combos with repeated exosure and possibly second only to A1 (and without the bad self effects) for memory/missing-you type responses.
The downside of P74 is that whilst it is great in romantic combos in smaller doses, if you go too high with it or get P74 out of proportion in your mix, then yes it can be just too comfortable and “best friendly” - so you generally need to keep it in check with status and a fairly blunt sexual. Very generally, keep it below 30mcg in a sexual, and only go over that if you have a very overt sexual in me mix to offset the friendlyness - TUTH, IJ or similar are all good here. At my age, 2-4 drops A314. 30mcg P74 and 2-4 sprays 2x TUTH is a great status/sexual combo with women in their 30s and over.
In professional/nonesxual bonding mixes, a higher does can do well - 40-60mcg with A314 and the likes. Gets you seen as an approachable “expert”/authority/someone to follow etc.
Thanks mobo, this is the sort of info I was hoping for! 
Will definitely be adding some to my next order to experiment with. Will plan to use with my A314, IH, and TUTH