So along with some P83 that I’d ordered, I received a freebie of MX200. Previous reports on the latter have indicated it has a positive effect with Asians, and since there’s this HAWT Korean girl I work with, I figured I’d spend a week trying the two. P83 is reported to have a somewhat sexual vibe, like androstenone-light, and without the negative side effects, so I thought it would be safe to pair the two together.
While I won’t go into a day-to-day breakdown of what happened, I can now look back and see a pattern throughout the week. Now, I should point out that I’ve already got a good rapport with the girl. I spend my days thinking of ways to make her laugh, because her face lights up and it has a feedback loop effect of making my day go well.
This past week has seen that interaction include lots of kino, with her coming up to me and doing simple little things like the trick of tapping my opposite shoulder to make me look the other way as she passes, or grabbing my arm and dragging me over to a computer to show me a funny picture or email. Likewise, I pay her back by sneaking up behind her and tickling the back of her neck with a paintbrush or my fingers. Nothing incredibly major, but given that 1) this is a workplace, and 2) her boyfriend works on the same crew, but in a different area, it has its own significance.
A word on her boyfriend and why I’m being so bold and flirty with her, though-- she’s not very happy with him. She hasn’t come out and said it, but she’s made some pretty obvious allusions, like not having anyone to talk to sometimes (if you can’t talk to your mate about stuff, there’s some communication issues there, IMO). He also seems controlling and jealous, which probably makes my interactions with her kind of risky. I do make sure not to be as bold when he’s around, and I also treat him with the same respect as a co-worker as I do everyone else I work with, so I don’t think this will come back to haunt me.
Besides, while the virile, horny male in me would think it’d be awesome to have a roll in zee hay with her, it’s not my ultimate intent. I guess what I’m doing is trying to build attraction and anchor positive and fun vibes to me, which seems to have worked over the past few weeks. All I have to do now is look at her, cock my head to the side, and stick out my tongue, and she’s a bundle of giggles.
Anyway, I digress. Regarding the combo, I’ve noticed I’ve become a little more… I guess the best word is “risque” with some of my pranks. Nothing that invades her personal space or could be seen as blatant sexual harassment or anything like that-- I KNOW I have to be careful. But let me give you an example that just happened today. One of the ladies on the crew brought in some brownies, and she had grabbed the last one before I knew any were available. She sat down in my field of view from where I was installing my part, and I looked through the wing frame and said “Herro, Kitty!” (inside joke that she started). She looked over while eating the brownie and I said “Hey, where’d you get that?” She said it was the last one, so I told her “Fine, I’ll just sit here and stare at you while you eat it.” She made a show of chewing with her mouth open and being playfully obnoxious about it, so I responded by going “Oh yeah… Oh yeah! I love it! More! More! Oh GOD!” Just then, another guy working on the other side of the wing I was on, stepped in the middle of my line of sight to install a part. From where I was seated, his zipper was directly in front of me about two feet away, and I yelled “OH GOD! Horrible view! Total turn off!” She laughed her ass off.
So yeah, I’ve been peppering our interactions with innuendos juuust on this side of “safe” and it’s been fun. While I credit the rapport I’ve been working on establishing with her for the day in, day out good times we have on the job, I have to say that P83 and MX200 have closed the gap a little and has both made me a little more brave and her a little more receptive.
-D4
OH YEAH!