Well, going with my original recommendation: Two sprays of the Instant Openness double strength and one spray of the Instant Honesty 4x would be the equivalent. It sounds like you are accustomed to fairly high doeses of A314, IO and IH, already. Maybe my suggestions are on the low side.
As far as the TAA oil, substitute Instant Shine. TAA is the major component of Instant Shine. If you have Instant Shine, you can probably estimate the dosage better than I can. Use a typical amount to reduce personal distance, but nothing excessive.
If things go well and you want something more exotic to experiment with next time, consider P86 as discussed here. It seems to make people look more attractive to each other.