Hi Ladies:
Was wondering what the best pheromone to boost self confidence if there is any out there to do. In need of a little self boosting these days. Thanks.
What type of confidence boost are you after? Just life in general for “breaking out of your shell” or in the romance department?
Instant Shine is a great all-rounder that has great self effects (aside from the effects on others 
). IS gives you a mood and energy boost along with a nice confidence boost. It basically does what it says on the bottle… It makes you shine 
If you want a bit of a confidence boost in the romance department I’d recommend IS/a. It’ll give you a bit of vavoom and you’ll definitively get that sexy confident strutt 
To come of out of my shell first then work on the love dept. Thanks
Well I just put my first order in cant wait till it arrives, I orderd instant shine along with instant openness and instant honesty. Will let you guys know how it goes once I recieve my items. Once again thanks for all the helpful advice.
Instant Honesty works very well for me to feel more confident. Also works very well when combined with Instant Shine to make you really stand out to others.
Well I have recieved my first order and I have tried Instant Shine and Instant Openness are no difference in people who are around me or no self effect either. No sure what to do next.
What exactly do you mean when you say you tried both IS and IO?
How much did you use? Where did you apply them? What environment were you in? Did you use them together or separately?
Have a read through Tisha’s sticky here in the women’s section, the one called “How to report on phero’s”. Towards the end of the first post there’s a really good description of how to find your “sweet spot” (ie the right dose for you). It’s a lot easier to get your head around phero’s and spotting results if you test each phero individually before jumping onto combo’s
The sticky on “How do I know if I’m getting hits” is also a very good read. Phero’s aren’t magic potions… They don’t create emotions or attraction, they only enhance what’s already there on some level, be that your personality (as expressed in your phero signature), emotions etc. Some hits are subtle, others are very obvious and it’s not always easy in the beginning to know what’s a hit & what’s not. Different phero’s also give different types of hits so you will have to be observant for different types of hits/effects
You have a journal Lene? That would be immensely helpful in your predicament.
I’ve used mones extensively for over 6 years: diverse chemset, home-brew and commercial. Save a brief period of anticipation akin to stage fright and too much coffee, I don’t feel anything from self medication of mones. Nuttin’. Zip. Zero.
Realize mones evolved during millions of years as a type of chemical/biological communication in a social context. Without the context most of us feel nothing. Mones by nature are designed to effect those around you. Not the wearer. I have never directly felt more confident while wearing mones. Confidence springs from within, following from accomplishments and experiences. It is something you practice and earn, not something you spray on. What mones do it amp up your persona. That is, take your essential natural and turn it up a notch, thereby imparting an edge. Obviously this means you must be an active participate within a social content for mones to work.
A fine concert guitar sits on a stand. In and of itself, the guitar can do nothing. Place the guitar in the hands of a nonmusical person and nothing happens. Or even worse, a cacophony erupts, offending all. Hand it to a master artist and magic fills the air. Mones are the guitar and the wearer is the artist. Success happens only when these two elements work together.
Finally, it takes most of us a few months to really tune in to what works and doesn’t work in what situations. Used incorrectly, mones can actually make things worse (search on OD). Some of us are so dull we wouldn’t know a positive reaction if it bit us in the arse. Seriously. So you need to practice, observe and tweak dose and product choice. Eventually you’ll nail it.
Going to keep working on it.
Hey Ladies; can you guys give me some idea on what phero to try next. My first order was I/O, I/H, I/S and I got free gift of I/Sexiness. I like to try some new ones?
When I wore Instant Sexiness I felt a great boost of self confidence, although I didn’t quite feel like myself. I felt more bitchy and superior, lol!
Some people get self effects, some don’t and there’s no magical mix that’s gonna work on everyone.
But for me, if I need something that’ll make me feel like I got it together, it would be IS A.
Before you jump onto the next set of phero’s to test have a think about the ones you have already tried.
Which one/s worked the best for you?
Which one/s did you like the best? The least?
IO & IH… Did you notice a difference between the two? Do you have a preference to either one?
Oh…and most importantly… What are you hoping that the new phero’s will do that the ones you have don’t? Are you after anything in particular in terms of self effects or effects on others?
You need to consider that when you choose you next ones… E.g if you tried IS/a and didn’t like it then that might be that you’re not a TAL girl (TAL is the main ingredient in IS/a), you might be a TAH girl instead so IS/b would suit you better.
Maybe some CTTM2 or Spaceland. But keep testing with the other products too
Not sure if works the same on the ladies but P78 sure reduces anxiety in me and so boost my confidence.
Worth a try.