First of all I can’t thank Jasmin enough for her post on “how to tell if a woman is interested in you” because although I have no problem with talking to hot young things I had no idea of what to look for to see if I might be able to take it to another level. Totally spot on!!!
So I ordered some products and they will be here tomorrow. I have a certain situation I want to try to capitalize on. The products I will have are…IS, IO, IH, A314, Ammo 2x, and TUTH.
A little back ground… I am 50 but seem to have the ability to carry on conversations with the 18-25 girls that come into my store (retail customers). At least that is the target audience my question is about. So I am trying to be a good newbie and read and search before I ask questions but…I am reading the sticky post by Jasmin and I get to thinking about one 18-19 year old girl I had an interaction with on Friday. So because I have a security system in my business (for antitheft), I replay the video of that interaction. I am amazed to see how she reacts to me when I talk to her. Gave me a woody 
She is from Spain and speaks good English. When I start to talk to her (watching the video) I see some body language from her. To begin with she is in the store for about 10 min before I go and talk to her and there is no sign of body language on the video as she is being waited on by one of the high school boys who work for me. Now to be truthful I met her once before briefly (about 30 secs) not at my store. When I go up to talk to her she immediately moves towards me and brushes her hair back behind her ears; she is on the other side of the counter but makes 3-4 steps all the way she can to the counter. I interact with her for 5+ min and the whole time she is playing with her hair, swaying, smiling, adjusting hear top, hands in her pockets pulling her jeans down a little, almost dancing around at one point. Of course I have no pheromones on at this time.
So my question is what (of the products I am getting) would I use to try to take this as far as I can. I am 50 so I realize I will not be able to get her to jump in the sack with me, but I really want to have the best chance I can at the highest level with her. I know for a fact I will have another opportunity to interact with her. Man I wish I could throw the video on here so guys could see this and know Jasmin and a few other posters in that thread are not exaggerating. Definitely taught this old dog a new trick and I am going to try to really notice “how” women interact with me from now on. Do you think it was because she knew I was the owner or do you think I really might have some chemistry here?
Some girls like older guys. I’m in my 40’s and for some reason last summer I had two 16 year old girls start chasing me. It got so bad at one point, one of the fathers came to speak to me because his daughter was talking about me all the time at home, and when he showed up it made sense, we had the same hair color, build and at that time I had a mustache as did he.
She works in my store, and has recently started dating a twenty something that looks like a blend of me and her dad.
The other one was a really bad girl, and I mean bad as in dropped out of school staying out all night and partying and would not leave me alone. Anytime she showed up, I would make myself conveniently unavailable.
You never know if you actually have a chance, but I will say this, be prepared for some f’d up drama. She’s young and is gonna act young…I mean like high school bullshit drama young…been there and done that too. Was 30, she was 19…never again that young.
Well it sounds like she was definitely flirting with you. Its hard to say if it was chemistry but there is a possibility. Some girls do like older men and date up. They are less likely to date down in age such as a 20 something going for a teen. Its rare that this reaction is sexual attraction when there is a 20 to 30 year gap though. Its status attraction.
My first advice to you is never ever give her free stuff. Not even a pack of gum unless every customer is getting one free. Unless you dont care that its status attraction. Girls will flirt to get free stuff, get out of tickets, get a A on the math test. etc etc.
My pheromone advice…
I do suggest you start out with one product at a time and test to see what it one does for you and your dosage. However in case you going for the traditional phero baptism we all do when we first get our products I suggest 1 or 2 shots of AMMO and 3 shots of Ishine.
TUTH is more for social events where sexual encounters are bound to happen. Wear it in the store and you could be the creepy horny guy who owns the store on the corner. You dont want that vibe in your store.
A314 while good for business in this case you may want to hold off on it when you know you will be interacting with them. You have status already being the store owner. You want to add a sexy interesting intriguing vibe and AMMO can produce that. Ishine can give a youthful charismatic warmth and vibrance.
IO would be a good choice in a store environment as well. IH I would save for more intimate occasions. You dont want the girl connecting on a “big daddy” level. The older guy I bring all my problems to. Save that for after sexual attraction has been achieved.
Tisha
Tish is spot on, something I would like to add as far as how to wear the mones (as opposed to just having them on) consider the fact that you’re the older man and really think about what a woman is looking for when she becomes attracted to an older man, maturity, status, value and dominance.
Play up that role, ask her FRIENDLY questions that give a little implication of you measuring her maturity or sophistication. Even throw out a minor neg about her age. An example might be “Yeah I saw this amazing set at the local jazz club last weekend, do you like…nahhhh you’re probably too young to be into Jazz”
You may find that she’ll either correct you about your assumption and say that she does like Jazz, or that while she’s never really given it a listen it’s something that she’d be interested in experiencing…this is date fishing and about as obvious an ioi as you can get.
So screening questions should be based on things that
A.) You actually like.
B.) Those things you like that might be considered a bit more sophisticated than what she’s typically exposed to.
Negs should be based on her age and associations you make about it. IOI’s when given should be based on her impressing you with being more mature and sophisticated than you’d expect from a woman her age.
I guess I was just so fascinated by the whole body language and then seeing it myself.
I got my order and they even included a free to-go of IJ…gonna stay away from that for a while. So I took the advice tisha gave me…you are right, I feel like a kid with new toys…
I went to the bank (every Monday) and didn’t have any product on. Got a new teller (very cute) and she didn’t know what to do with my deposits, since I didn’t make them out I wanted to back off and make sure everything was ok. Got home, to FedEx bringing my stuff, so I put 3 (not quite full) sprays IS, 1 to the neck and 1 on each wrist. Waited bout 5 min and did feel different. So I decided to try the Ammo. I did a very weak (I wouldn’t even say a half on left wrist) and a good (bout ¾) on the right wrist and rubbed my wrists together. I freaked out a little because the scent was pretty strong. Waited 20 min and went back to the bank. This time my favorite teller was there (she is pretty hot) and a couple ladies from the bank talked to me while I was standing there waiting (nothing out of the ordinary there). Then the main loan officer heard my voice and came out to talk to me. After I shook his hand he really seemed to back away from while he talked to me (and didn’t talk to long), which was unusual, normally he is much more talkative (in fact difficult to get away from). So he said “I’ll let you get back to business” and left. I turn back to the teller and she starts asking me questions about different things and making a lot more eye contact than she normally does. I am gonna give it a few hours and go back into the store and see what kind of reactions I get there.
I would say everything depends on what you want to get, who it is going to be positive for, and if what you want to get would/will be the best thing for all the people concerned.
Concerning the younger girl, maybe she’s in need of a father figure and she sees it in you. I’m saying this because you mentioned she brushed her hair back behind her ear. Which I’d say is a “manipulation” gesture in a way that says she’s shy when seeing you and/or feels “lower”, which you can use to lead the conversation and the relationship.
If she brushed her hair behind both her ears, I’s say “Go for it” cos she’s opening her whole neck when seeing you, which means she’s ready to open a very private part to you.
Now it’s up to your character, if you want to be sure she won’t get hurt by a misdirection in relationship, take time using RADMAN advice, definitely practical !
And for pheros : Instant Shine and IO/IH.
By the way, where are you from ?