thanks noblelady.
any ideas on what’s going on w/ my posts?
I have the same problem- sometimes when you switch to a hybrid mode, you can scroll to posts beneathteh prsent depth and !viola! otherwise it seems some come through instantly, others seem to take their sweet time 
go figure!
but…its not just you! 
thanks yall. I tried IH, 3 sprays in the morning. This girl is becoming more distant, I don’t think it has anything to do with the pheros. At lunch I put on 4 IFM, we walked along talking for a minute, but she is still becoming more and more distant. She used to text me during class all the time, send me myspace messages, etc… She has been doing none of that. I’m about to give up and if she wants me she’ll just have to pursue, I guess.
Thanks all for yalls help. Don’t worry, I’m still keeping my other “options” open. there really aren’t any, but what’ll ya do.
Just put the canvas aside for the time being.
Relax and take a breather, There is so much opportunity and beauty to behold, waiting ready and excited for your fresh new canvas and array of brilliant colours. 
There seems to be a bug or two in the forum software that causes some, but not all, posts to either go into “moderation” or not seem to get posted right away. Even I got caught once or twice in “moderation.” Just try to give the system an hour or two (or three or four…) to see if it works before reposting. If you go back and find multiple similar posts from yourself due to reposting a “vanished” (or just plain slow) message it would be nice if you could delete them to streamline the flow.