This is my first post. I’m 22 years old from the New Jersey and college student. I’m 5’8", 140lbs slim/fit body type. I currently major in engineering and I fix computers for a big box store. I’m kinda shy, introverted and not as socially savvy as the average person. My only comfort zone when dealing with the opposite sex is on chat rooms.
I’ve been reading Pickup stuff for the past few months after a short but intense relationship. It failed because I wasn’t prepared to handle stuff. My hope is to use pheros for initial interaction so things can go more smoothly with women as well as to enhance my overall social impact with people.
Warmest of welcomes to the community! Thank you for sharing with us about yourself.
Here’s what i recommend:
Instant Shine is a must have! It places everyone in a fantastic mood and people will recognize that your very presence makes them happier!
IH to forge deeper connections. People may start telling you “truths” because they feel closer to you.
IG, my personal base. Makes you suave and cool, trustworthy and dependable. Very similar to A314 but in a less serious tone.
Ammo - it smells like sex in a bottle. Its got a nice amount of sexiness without being too overwhelming.
IO or IH to purchase?: IO makes people want to talk. talk talk talk and talk! if this is what you require, go get it! IH is better for bonding though or simply get both for different situations or used together!
A314 or IG?: A314 gives a nice Alpha status. Personally, I feel that IG was more congruent with my personality so i’ve been going with IG instead.
Ammo vs TUTH: Ammo is more of a general atraction while TUTH as its name suggests is for a more intimate setting or environment.
To ease yourself into interactions a little easier, try out Instant Openness. You can do something simple such as make a comment about the weather, and people will not stop talking to you. Remember, you still have to put in the effort, but these products make it alot easier once you do your work!
Instant Shine is another great product. Its a confidence booster and a mood booster. I believe everyone should have this.
Finally try out Instant Gentleman. Its pretty much charisma and respect mixed in a bottle. Its great to make you seem like the cool guy and it mixes very well with the products I mentioned earlier. I would stay away from A314 if your shy, it requires alot of work out of the user to see it shine the way its meant too.
I would stay away from the more sexual products for now if you think you come off as shy. You could possibly send out the creeper vibe wearing them and see some negative results. Save these for when you start to break out of your shell a bit
Other than that, the men’s section is a great place to learn both pheromone and social/pua tips, so be sure to poke around there!
Welcome to the forum. I’ll second the instant openness and/or instant honesty recommendations. IMO these are a couple of the best products for all around purposes, and are really great for helping to overcome shyness.
Maidenfan01 has an interesting point regarding sexual mixes and shyness. Creeper vibe is definitely not a good thing, lol.
wow wow really good advice but too much product, if i only have the money i will buy everything. lol anyways im still figuring out which product suit for me. i think IS and IO will be great for now.
IG and A314 is a great product too, i think it will make me feel im a VIP.
once you get your giftcard you should be able to try out three to-go bottles for next to nothing. I strongly encourage you to get IG too! It helped me alot when i first started.
