This is my first of what hopefully will be many posts. I’ve only been into pheromones for few weeks but I like what I’m reading. Since I do want to start posting up my field reports (probably middle of next week after my midterm) I’ll give you more details about me so you’ll have some context for comments and especially recommendations.
I’m 22 years old from the San Francisco Bay Area and college student of southeast Asian decent. I’m 5’4, 120lbs slim/fit body type. I currently major in engineering and I fix computers for a big box store. Personality wise I’m kinda shy, introverted and not as socially savvy as the average person (especially when it comes to women). My only comfort zone when dealing with the opposite sex is on the dance floor because I’ve been doing ballroom dancing for 2 years.
I’ve been reading and studying PUA (Pickup) stuff for the past few months after a short but intense relationship. It failed because I wasn’t prepared to handle stuff. My hope is to use pheros as training wheels or crutches to enhance the initial interaction so things can go more smoothly with women as well as to enhance my overall social impact with people. I have some serious approach anxiety issues. I have 2 years of school left so I’m dedicating that amount of time to reinventing myself and to get this part of my life handled.
Since I stumbled on Love-Scent first before finding this site, I’ve already ordered Chikara and NPA. I want to order a few products here when I get my next paycheck so please give me some suggestions as to what I can order to incorporate with what I already have.
Hey, welcome! For approach anxiety I think you’d benefit from IO and IH, preferably the two of them combined together. Basically IO helps break the ice, make you more approachable, and helps to feed conversation. IH helps to deepen connections, add a sense of trust, and make you appear more trustworthy which in return will make people feel like they can come closer to you (or have them feel like they’ve known you for years hence the name IH.)
While pheromones might help you a little bit - people won’t be approaching you until you’re approachable
Try set yourself a challenge. On your way to work, or around college - give 10 people compliments. Not just girls - just anyone. You’ll realise that if you go into a conversation with a smile and charisma - it’s not really that hard.
If you can’t fork out for both IO and IH - try some CTTM2. That’s basically a 50/50 split between the two. Some ISHINE might be good too to boost your self-confidence.
Pheromones can only do about 10-20% of the work - YOU need to do the rest yourself. Think of pheromones as a nice suit. People do judge you by what you wear. However, dressing a hobo in a suit doesn’t stop him from being a hobo - he’ll still smell and act like a hobo. It’s up to him to groom himself, and be more approachable.
Thanks Leafstamp and Miko for the comments and suggestions. Keep it comimg!
You’re totally right leafstamp, I need some serious grooming in addition to the pheros. I have no problem opening customers at work because that’s my job, asking people to dance on the dance floor (when it’s a dance I know) but when it come to cold approaching a girl for the sole purpose of picking up/getting to know her, i psyche myself out too much. I’m still recovering from my one-itis as well so intellectually, i get it, but there are days when I’m still all over the place emotionally.
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