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I do not speak Portuguese, which (I understand) is the native language of Brazil. I tend to command things here at work; people, tasks, projects, budgets, etc . . . with authority and respect - not sure how this comes into play though in regards to her.

She is striking, and claims to be a former swimsuit model during her pre-med years in Miami (18-23 years of age?) . . . this I would truly believe in a heartbeat, as she is bangin’ - - - yet she has provided me with no pictorial history to date - - - yet I have made this similar request myself.

I tell you . . . she really invades my space (when nobody’s around) - not that this bothers me . . . it’s all rather confusing at this moment in time. I kind of like it to be honest with you.

From what I’ve gathered from other docs and staff, she’s supposedly very quiet and reserved - RIGHT ! ! !

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She digs you and shes doing the dance.Sounds like she thinks you’re worth trying to impress. I’d say don’t be confused by things it sounds like shes just feeling comfortable enough around you to drop her guard.I’m w dj on the wine dinner.Stuff like that is uber sexy.Hence why it gets tossed into so many movies and tv shows here.
Goodluck man.Not that you need it :slight_smile:

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she wants you to hook me up with her :smiley:

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Eating lunch by myself today in a small garden that’s tucked away between some towers of the hospital . . . reading a good book (Outliers by M. Gladwell - in case you’re interested), when guess who pops up ??? Perhaps there’s some residual effect, as I did not paint myself today - - - but she was quite friendly to say the least.

She’s going out dancing with friends tonight, and invited me along . . . I declined, as my flight leaves this evening for Montreal - where I will surprise my Mother for Mother’s Day . . .

She said nothing, but looked sad ??? I apologized and she understood, wished me a safe trip. She then lifted my sunglasses up from my eyes to look at me . . . said good bye, rubbed her thumb down my cheek lightly from top to bottom . . . reminded me about Monday night then left the garden, pausing at the door - turned around and smiled/waved . . .

WTF ???

This is funny stuff . . . ~j

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Tek , you’re in like Flynn, I’m sorry but you are just going to have to deal with the aftermath… you lucky lucky smooth talking barsteward.

Failing that, castlerock has been his ever so chivalrous self, you could do far worse than look after a friend like him :roll_eyes:

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always willing to help out :smiley:

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All help aside !!!

No paint on me at work today, she (once again) sourced me out to remind me about our rendezvous tonight . . . but was very affectionate none-the-less: taking me by the hand to sit down in the lobby - discussing what will happen tonight. She lives quite close to this club and recommends we can go back to her place if things get boring with the music . . . hmmmm . . . residuals here ???

She was quite inquisitive about my trip to Montreal, but very nice and complimentary for taking such time and expense to visit my Mother . . . I claimed chivalry is not dead.

Once finalized, she gave me a light kiss on the cheek - winked - then left with a big smile . . . oh my . . .

What should I apply tonight, here’s my current arsenal: IO, IH, IS and TUTH (lo-dose) . . .

Thanks for your support and ideas…~j

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I would go with IS and IH but keep the TUTH in your pocket in case things get too boring at the club and far less boring back at her place…

I get the impression that this lady has got a bad case of the hots, chivalry alone dictates that you aid a damsel in distress :wink:

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Hear Hear … I second the Diamond’s choice of product and the assistance required. Perform well my son.

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This is a very good story, I can’t wait to see how it unfolds. You’re almost playing hard-to-get with her… it’s quite cool. She probably likes that since she seems like she could get just about anyone she wants, but you aren’t like everybody else.

This is by far one of the funniest things I’ve read on this forum. Without a doubt. hahahaha

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Residuals can be in the mind as well as on the body or clothes.

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Thanks to you all for the valuable suggestions and information.

Very interesting evening to say the least.

We decided to initially meet at a coffee shop, to get energized for the evening. I arrived early (as always) – and was reading another great book, then she arrived. What a sight to behold, every eye in that place was on her when she walked in; she gave me a big smile and cheek-kiss. She was dressed well, looked great and smelled beautiful . . . a striking example of the female form. Light silk summer dress and pearls . . . high-heel shoes and no hose … her skin is naturally bronze in this regard.

I took ‘Diamonds’ directive in this matter . . . waiting for TOTH until later in the evening, but with some IH initially. Good call . . .

We had a great conversation, much more uninhibited than at work . . . she spoke of her past relationships and her general dissatisfaction with the sexual prowess of the younger males she’s seen recently. I politely skirted this issue, but she constantly forced the conversation on this sexual tangent every 10 minutes . . . I was playing “hard-to-get” (as others have stated), and such was having a difficult time in controlling myself with her interrogations.

We decided to start walking to the jazz club. Fabi is rather tall (as am I) . . . and she put her arm around my shoulder as we walked . . . I know she was being influenced by these pheros. Arrived at the club and grabbed a table in a small, enclosed dining area surrounded by pillows – with a curtain (Turkish restaurant by day, jazz club by night) . . . you know what I mean.

Seven piece jazz band was smokin’ last night – classics mixed with free-form, fusion and some Latin thrown in. Her dancing was hypnotic, and she was definitely noticed in this regard. I excused myself to the restroom – where I applied two sprays of TUTH. We danced more, and after one slow dance – she wanted to sit down and relax . . .

By this time we had lots of wine, and she was very foreceful. We sat down in our private/secluded area (I think she had this in mind when launching this idea with me last week) . . . and she started speaking in Portuguese again !!! She had this crazed look in her eyes, and then sat on my lap . . . we embraced for a few minutes . . . then she took my hand and placed it up her dress. She was totally commando . . . this was my signal.

We quickly left the club and walked back to her place.

She was insatiable, I was not surprised at her energy and devotion to this event - - - she was indeed ready to go. I’m not sure how other men have treated her in this department, but she was satisfied to say the least – many times ! ! ! LOL . . .

I am sure these paints have played a major role in allowing us to both meet and enjoy each others company. Still have not heard from her today . . . ~j

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Wow. Very nice indeed. Sounds like she really needed your … data input. Perfect use of the products - socials to build rapport then TUTH at the right moment.

I will tell you that the Brazilians like most latins are very tied to family. You scored bonus points in that respect when she was sure you were visiting mom. I did the same with a hispanic girlfriend in high school when she saw me give both parents a hug goodbye as she and I went out the door one afternoon.

I also know the basic personality type. My wife is very alpha. Strong need to be very professional and on top of things at work. Strong need for professional respect. But can cut loose at home - kinda offsets the uber-professional at work.

Think about some A314 and Ammo. I use A314 and IH combo at work. It is great. And A314 and Ammo pair well together for evening wear. There is a thread in my signature block about this. And you can continue to use the IH with it as well. These are three of my favorite products.

Good luck and fair seas!

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Well done. That’s about the only meaningful thing I can think of to say. :roll_eyes:

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Never underestimate the power of the social pheromone! There is little doubt that this girl was into you. You established rapport and comfort with the IH then upped the ante with the TUTH when you felt the time was right. Classic, textbook technique, well done.

The important thing now is to think of her mental state, is she the type to have the guilty, I’m a slut’ self talk after the event? If so, that may explain why she hasn’t phoned you since. She may really appreciate a call right about now but you know this girl, we don’t, either way, be the gentleman.

reps :wink:

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Diamond, you are right on the money.

I finally caught up with her this afternoon (busy day for us both) . . . she greeted me with a light kiss on the lips and a warm hug . . . no paint on me today . . .

Her feedback was very positive in regards to our evening spent together. She did in fact bust-my-balls about my age for the very first time, but only to augment/blanket the entire statement with her enormous satisfaction, elation and vibe !!! I, of course, downplayed her directive - - - and skirted the issue in my own way.

She finally provided me the website where her photos are still being used (commercially), and yeah, it’s definitely her – much the same as she is now.

Fabiana is behaving a bit differently today, but nothing negative or weird . . . she’s just a bit shy and reserved. Perhaps the game is over for her now (as if there ever was one) . . . who knows.

She did invite me to dinner at her place on Friday night though, an authentic Brazilian meal . . . I bring the wine. I really look forward to this - - -

Pheros to the rescue….. ???

Thanks for your input and support once again.

We will see . . . ~j

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A strange thing happened late in the day:

In addition to this Med School job, I also write music for radio and television advertising. Having played the piano for over 40 years now, I constantly write new material.

At any rate, there’s a magnificent piano in the lobby of Children’s Hospital, it’s a full Yamaha grand that was (recently) tuned last week. I frequently sit and play for the sick children most evenings when my time permits – I really enjoy that. This instrument is beautiful, and fills the cavernous lobby easily…….

So . . . I’m sitting there playing a new piece recently composed – mostly impressionistic (think DeBussy) . . . a soft, spacious piece that’s very gentle, yet slow and almost sensual in delivery. I noticed there was nobody around . . . and finished the piece in due time.

I turn around to leave, there was Fabiana just standing there looking at me . . . huge tears in both eyes streaming down her face. I felt very bad and asked her if she was OK . . . she just hugged me really hard, backed away about 12 inches and was staring at me, just shaking her head. She said something in Portuguese, brushed my eyebrow with her thumb, and then left.

It never dawned on me that she would eventually hear me play, but considering she’s a pediatric resident in the Children’s Hospital . . . it was bound to happen sooner or later.

Perhaps she was just very emotional about what happened (last night) between us.

What’s happening here ??? Residuals ??? Is she mad at me ???

She was in shock. I was confused.

At any rate, I highly doubt anything more will develop between us given our age difference - although we do professionally interface weekly.

~j

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The Phero’s may have slightly cracked the door, but it was you who walked through, picked her up, and carried her out.

Damn good job Low, it sounds like you have brightened both your lives.

Congrats.

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I think:

She is happy with the way things are going.

She trusts and likes you enough to show you her modeling photos. And she is parlty showing off …

She is a little shy and embarrassed about how forward she was. Maybe just because she cut so loose, maybe partly because of the way she “views” you given the age difference.

There is a lot of trust in that she let you past that strong professional almost icy demeanor into her private, passionate, Braizilian world.

I would just let her know it is all good and go on from there.

I do not think things have come to an end. She feels she has to behave with you one way in the professional world in order to maintain what in her eyes is a precarious professional standing given she is a woman in what she sees as a male-dominated world and still “just” a resident (you know the food chain). While she may take advantage of any breaks her beauty cuts her, she does not seem to use flirting or sex as a means of getting along. She wants to be taken seriously as a medical professional and is trying to behave as one - or how she believes one should behave. The fact that you get the tears and the facial caresses - a friendly intimate act in the latin world and not the straight cool professional speaks good volumes in itself.

Edit: As I eluded to before, latinas are very family and children oriented. She was recognizing/acknowledging in that emotional latin fashion the beauty of you playing for the children. Like visiting your mom, you just scored huge points in her book - although obviously that is not why you were there.

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Low,

I’ve read your posts and you sound like someone who’s genuinely interesting and very skilled.. someone who has high value in her world and also has a romantic side…

I may have missed one of your posts, but my guess is that her aggression is gone since she’s deferring to you as the man to make the next move. Don’t give her too much of a hard time; be playful and make the next move.

If you’ve got a wide variety of songs you can play on the piano, have her come sit with you and play her something… then perhaps go out for something fun.

Age only matters if it matters to you. It doesn’t sound like it matters to her.

That’s my 2 cents!