Hello, All –
Okay, so how did I find this place? Short answer ? Google search and curiosity.
Long answer? I’m a 35 year old female, born and raised in the Midwest, and have lived in south florida for the past ten years. My interest in pheromones actually started way in my youth, right around the time Suzanne Somers started going on talk shows talking about hormone therapy. I remember being in high school and college, watching her on television, thinking ?what the heck is Chrissy talking about?, but it made some kinda sense. Yes ? she’s kinda wacky ? but her determination to stay as young and healthy as possible caught my attention. So I casually started doing some research about the theories behind her claims, and that’s when I really got into the idea of pheromone science.
As a person, I have to admit that I’ve always felt a bit shy. Even though I do consider myself a very smart and capable adult, I always fall naturally into low status roles. But here’s the thing that has always thrown me off ? people have always trusted me my entire life with their most guarded secrets and opinions. I have no idea why. I’m pretty average looking, a little bit talented, a natural listener, and very sensitive to other people feelings, but not some charismatic pied piper that could sell peanuts to a man with no teeth ? so what is it about me that draws people in and makes them want to talk? I have no idea, but it makes me anxious, because I don’t have the best social skills and can’t seem to break through into that gregarious side of my personality to make the conversion equal. So people offer up all of this wonderful personality all of the time and I’ve only got a thimbleful to offer, myself.
And at this point of my life, I find myself really needing to step up my personality profile more at work and in my life in general ? like, yesterday. And I feel like I’ve tried everything I already know how to do to make conversation less stressful, so its time to try something tangible to try to grease the wheel a little bit. I’m tired of feeling like Robin to everyone else’s Batman. As far as I’ve read on the forum already (there are great stickies to help the uninitiated here, you guys ? thanks!), no real harm could come from trying the pheromones, so I’m totally game. And I want to try everything – but i think I want to start with Instant Shine and Instant Sexiness (I’m still not clear on the difference between the A and B formula, though)!
For the above reasons and more, they are how I arrived here. How do I hope the pheromones will help? I’m on the fence a bit? At this point, boost my confidence a little and allow me to open up more. I don’t know how much or how well they will work for me, but I think doing a little R&D would be totally intriguing. Maybe I’ll get this huge reaction from men when I’m on the train (fun!), or maybe people at work will listen to my ideas better ? or it could all result in some mad placebo effect and I just needed a kick in the pants about being a more sociable person.
So here I am to get started on this journey. Truthfully, I do believe that the pheromones will have an effect on myself and others, and I’m super excited to find out what they’ll do. I also love the idea of scientific experimentation, and that’s another reason why I want to try them out. And after lurked on this forum for a few days, I completely believe that this site has a lot of good, supportive people here, and I would love to be a part of that community.
Let’s get started! Thanks for taking the time to read my little backstory, everyone!
-maui ![]()