She is shy, and so am I - Which mones to wear on first date?

Hey Guys

I am a totally newbie to mones, so I need some help and suggestions from you :slight_smile:

I have a date next Wednesday with a Italian woman, age 33. We never met before, just online contact. My problem is that I am rather an insecure person, and so is she, -> very very shy. But I think that’s why we are liking each other :slight_smile:

Now luckily my first mones order (IS, IH, Ammo, TUTH, A314, P83) arrived today and I wonder what would work best to help me/us a little bit on our first date. I thought about IS, IH, and P83?

I am not sure about A314. Does this not reflect total “alpha-male” status? Because this does not reflect my personality at all. So I wonder if I should add it or not. Will it help me? Or rather “fake” something?

And what about using TUTH for the first date? Too much?

Thanks :slight_smile:

ok, I will definitely use IS.

Holy shit, just tested it, 2 spays (regular strength) and the mood brightening and worries destroying effects are definitely real! Libido also increased from 1 second to another :smiley:

The only problem is that I now have to do some boring work here, but it’s difficult to concentrate with these shiny IS molecules all around me :slight_smile:

As you’re both shy it’s essential to break the ice immediately after meeting - if not it’s gonna be a date with a lot of awkward silences. So I would wear something light and approachable. IO comes to mind, but as you don’t have it I would go with a simple Ammo + IS mix. IH can be added too, but in my opinion it is too deep for a first date. If you feel you have bonded already a lot through the internet, IH is suitable.

Would steer away from TUTH and P83 for your first date. A314 is good at your age, but if you feel you can’t pull off the vibe it gives off don’t use it and just experiment with it a bit first.

Yes, I think that’s a good advice. To experiment with the mones first, specially A314.
I will use it tomorrow, then go out and observe how I and others will react to it.
If I feel that it will help and that I can handle it, I will use it on the date, if not I will try to get used to it after the date.

Anybody knows what the “Molecule C” can be used for? It was included with my order (as a free bonus)

Yes, lighter, more balanced and social/feelgood mones look to be more the thing for you here.

Both your ages do make TUTH/A314 combinations viable but if shyness/reticence is an issue, I would strongly suggest you leave-off them for now, at least until you are both much more comfortable with each other. A314 does have an excellent trunting vibe but its steering molecules can make it a bit daunting/serious on a shy guy and I have fownd that women with social anxiety issues can be overwhelmed by it in all the wrong ways.

Himeros suggestions are all good - Ammo is a balanced sexual that is not oppressive, overly horny or any kind of unsocial. Instead it projects a sexy, social and masculine vibe that most women warm to and find interesting/attractive, so its great for meeting someone, getting to know them and retaining that aura of sexuality but without creating a feeling that you are going to unzip and offer your cock to her at any moment.

In addition, the IS/IH combo is a great mature conversation vibe, trusting, close, bonding and engaging - The IS also adds a feelgood layer that steers the IH away from going too deep and having them pouring out their problems/troubles - which is not good for attraction. Instead it steers the IH in a happy/feelgood direction that usually has them sharing the secrets that turn them on/make them feel very good.

TUTH/IO/IS is also a viable and more overt sexual if you end-up going somewhere more raunchy - like a club or party but that is for further down the line. IO helps promote conversation and may help you talk more freely too It also helps knock the sexual rawness off TUTH and the IS adds a feelgood layer - in fact it goes well with so many pheros.

Molecule C is an experimental molecule. Ideally you test it on its own at a range of doses and report back what you find. I don’t want to lead you too much but it is not a molecule you will have any problems with, in fact its properties are quite in line with helping shy people feel more relaxed and comfortable around you. :slight_smile:

Hey mobocaster, thanks for your detailed advices.

Of course I couldn’t wait till tomorrow and tried A314 this evening (2 drops).
I immediately felt very “aggressive”, really way too much. So you are absolutely right, I have to get used to A314 first. And when at this point A314 is already too much for me, then it surely is also for her!

It seems that I react very fast & strong to the mones, but I suppose this is normal for a first time user (?)

So as this will be our first date (in a restaurant) I think I will stick to IS, Ammo and perhaps some IH.

Yeah I had a very similar experience with A314. When first tried tried the spray it hit me instantly. Totally over-the-top bullet proof confidence in a good way. When I tested the oil for the first time at 2 drops, I felt dark, gloomy and aggressive. Gave me a headache too. Now my sweetspot is 1 drop, no negative side-effects. You definitely have to adjust to the oil.