Hi unicorn and a welcome to the mone forum! Privacy online… yup… I hear ya! I’ve had my burns from online privacy taking a turn for the worst… Really, though, we hear want to talk mones and share our experiences… I’d only ask that you do the same… good, bad or indifferent, what did you find with the mones you use?
Well, as you have started out with a thoughtful intro post, I’d suggest to give IS/b a try. Really is a sexy kittenish vibe that you can amplify with your attitude. The Instant Shine would be the other mone I’d suggest. This will give others a signal of a feel good to be around you…
Looks like IO may not be as good for you as you are already being approached to talk about things that others want to lay on you… you are likely a good listener and empathize with those that approach you. Probably why guys approach you with there thoughts…
Here are a couple of threads that I think you will find interesting and helpful in your understanding of mones.
Check out the links on my sig below, especially, the Intro to Mones by Steve O to get the most out of the mones you do decide to use!
Wishing the unicorn well! 