I am coming to conflicting conclusions after searching the forums. My personality is probably more b than a… I am more reserved, kind of submissive, don’t like conflict, like activities like reading and am like the girl next door. I do have a few is/a qualities, like I can be outspoken around people I’m comfortable with, and I can be competitive in academics and video games. All things considered though, I have overwhelmingly more is/b qualities. So I’m wondering if I should choose is/b because it matches my personality more and will enhance it, or if I should choose is/a because I want to balance my personality. Some people say that choosing the opposite causes a clash, but I also worry that putting is/b over an already b personality will make me look needy and fade into the background.
Choosing the opposite will not necessarily create a clash. There are merits to both techniques, of choosing something that is similar to you or different. What you have to think about is what you want to project. Whatever you choose will be adding to your personality. What do you want to add on top of whatever you are already working with? Do you want to take “you” and make it more sassy/sultry? Or do you want to make “you” more sweet and adorable? Both are valid choices. You just need to choose what you want the end picture to be.
Ok definitely trying to be more sultry. Especially when my problem now is that I’m tired of just being sweet/adorable lol. I’m happy to know it won’t necessarily clash
I JUST MADE MY FIRST ORDER! I ordered both the is/a and is/b to go’s so I can see which one works best. Once I figure that out I’m gonna get the tuth so I can dab it for a hint of sexual energy. I have been going back and forth so much on the is/a and is/b that I figure I have to try both. I can’t freaking wait to find out which one gives the best results… Knowing me I’m probably going to be so addicted lol
Hi chrysalis1,
I totally know what you mean ! Imagine just a few months back I felt exactly the same way! I think you are on the right track and I truly wish you all the best, I believe you all find success with this, just like I did. 
Just a small suggestion you might want to consider was that when I first started, my man was actually confused because I was technically the same person in the same clothes but something was just different, it was hilarious. But I personally found that wearing something special, when I first started pheromones helped ease my man into it, for him to think that its just part of my new scent now. 
Btw I would definitely encourage you to try Instant Shine too in future if you ever want to try more, it helps people feel “good” around you. Esp in the case of relationships with close family and friends, I find that it helped ease quarrels into a slightly better circumstances too. I have found since I started using these stuff, I CANT STOP NOW.
Good Luck! :o
Thanks!!! I’m so excited! I think I will order the instant shine too, it seems like you can’t go wrong really with something that just puts people in a good mood. Why not right?
And this is hilarious but i already have it planned to get my hair professionally straightened and maybe colored (I haven’t done this since college, mostly I just wear my hair curly) once my products come so I can time the pheros with that change. That way he can just think that’s the source of anything “different” about me.
I am glad you are open to try instant shine, you will not regret it! Not just others, it definitely puts myself into a better mood too with regards to self effects!
That is great! Who knows he might actually think its your change in your new hair that caused you to “feel” different to him
I hope you post your results!
I prefer IS B over IS A most of the time. I actually feel that both of them work for me but in different settings.
IS B
This has always worked well for my boyfriend. I usually notice extra attention and affection when wearing it. He is more touchy and always trying to hug and kiss. IS B makes me feel really ditsy and bubbly which is good and bad. I actually almost had a bad car wreck that I feel had something to do with it as I was in an air-headed mood and not focusing. However I like the way IS B makes me feel. I feel “floaty” and attractive. I feel noticed when I walk in the room and very confident but giggly. I do always want this on hand it is great to be able to add this into our relationship and it makes me feel like sweet and playful too!
IS A
When I use this around my boyfriend the only way I can describe myself is “a bitch”. I seem to become very confrontational and harsh. If something annoys me this exaggerates it and makes me speak up about it. I can feel frustrated when I wear it. That said it does make me feel super confident.
Due to the above Ive actually found this to be beneficial for work! Usually Ill try to knock the edge off with some Instant Shine. I feel that this gives me more confidence in my job and be able to foster respect from others in the company. I like having this on hand to spray before a meeting. I feel it reminds everyone that I know whats going on and can offer valuable input.