Hey guys,
I haven’t received any phermones yet but I’m going to take the opportunity to explain a typical night out without them. I know this isn’t really pheromone related yet so I do apologise. For any experiment there needs to be a control though.
I had about 16-18 units of alcohol tonight so I was between the middle ground between tipsy/drunk, the right amount for me. I went to the local decent bar/club. The only decent one in the area. I entered the club with about 10 units in me already and got chatting to my friends. I associate with a certain type of girl and was on the lookout for this particular type for this test. Within half an hour I was talking to a girl who was standing near the edge of the dance floor, while not really expecting a whole lot. We hit it off okay but it was evident that it wasn’t really going to progress much more than ‘here’s my number’. I decided to move on and ventured futher into the action.
Alcohol for me simply allows my personality to shine through. I’d prefer to go without it but I hate the whole awkwardness of initial meetings, that’s my main problem. Once I get talking I can usually maintain a conversation. The next issue is actually going further than just a conversation. I have the guts to get involved with girls and can usually spot the ones who are interested. But I can never seem to rope them in entirely (apart from a few occasions). Obviously alcohol does help but I really shouldn’t need to rely on it.
The next group of girls I met were pretty outgoing I could tell. The reason I stopped with them was due to a double glance which I perceived as a bit of interest. I got chatting with one of them and we all decided to get a drink in the end. I concentrated on involving myself in a conservation that they would enjoy. My technique is to talk about things in which they like/enjoy to create a nice feeling of rapport and trust. Once someone is talking about their ambitions and dreams you’ve got a good chance. Use any information and relate it to your own experiences and life to make a connection. If you’re a nice guy, not overly over the top but talkative then you shouldn’t have any issues with this. Anyway, once again I got one of the girl’s numbers and went outside for a smoke. By this time it was already around 2 30am and decided to head off (I wanted a lift back home and my mate had work the following day).
All in all a pretty typical night. No action but a bit of talking.
Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Cheers.