Hey again everyone, I’ve still been experimenting with A314 and it has been going well so far. No ghosting or ODing so I’m good right? Well I’ve noticed that lately that A314 has been making me a bit moody and short tempered. Does anyone else have this same effect towards them? Also I’m conflicted at work because I have a confidence boost and am acting more Alpha-like but don’t know what to do when my supervisors or managers tell me to do something. I feel like I act Beta more than Alpha if I submit to their commands. Help me out with this please.
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When I first started to use A314 I had the same issues as you. It does go away in a few weeks. It’s more of setting a high standard. But pheromones alone can’t help you become more alpha. You also have to have that mindset of doing your best and highlighting your strong points and adding skill sets that you want that would help further your goals in life.
As for feeling beta, I work for dudes that are the typically AMOG or fake alpha. Because they give you orders or tasks doesn’t make you more beta. You’re still young and you will always have supervisors around you, you will have to answer to someone. The key is to not let the small stuff bother you. You will always have some asshole who’s going to try and one up you, let them do it, and just do what you need to do. They are probably seeking validation that’s why they’re trying to do that to you, because in reality they’re beta.
P51 is spot on. We’ve pretty much all experienced similar side effects when wearing A314. I’ve actually started just wearing 1 drop instead of the 3-4 I have in the past. Mainly because it can be a bit intense, and I’m wanting it to be more sexy alpha, than intimidating business alpha. I’ve been testing just A314 + TUTH on a couple of occasions to see where that leads and I’ve gotten some results that I’m happy with that I will definitely be posting.
Yeah I’ve worn A314 around my gf twice and it seems like she doesn’t really notice that I’m wearing it unless she’s kissing my neck, practically burying her nose in it. She does comment every time and says that it smells AMAZING! =D it just makes me think that the musk cloud doesn’t extend that far out at all. I Although, I was wearing Ammo on my neck where she was kissing and the A314 on my jawline. I think she said something about it smelling like soap or flowers lol. Based on what I’ve read here, it was probably the Ammo but i’m not sure the Ammo was still in effect as I applied both approximately 5 hours before she smelled my neck and commented. Yesterday she commented when I was only wearing A314, so she definitely has smelled both. But it seems like it’s only when it’s literally in her face. It’s kinda late and I’m rambling xD but these have been my thoughts today so if anyone can shed light on them, it would be greatly appreciated.
Yeah, her description of the smell is how A314 smells to me after the fragrance package has faded.
AMMO’s scent lasts a while, I’ve had hints of the smell way after I applied it on, even the next day and after a shower.
Alpha as a state of mind is…or can be…constant and just a part of your personality.
Alpha as a position is conditional, at any given time anyone no matter how rich, successful or confident can be put into a position where they have to defer to somebody elses authority. Case in point…(cops, the ones from police stations, not from women) You get pulled over and no matter how much money you make, you are NOT in charge…mainly because he has a gun but that’s not the point.
Point is, I can understand how “taking orders” from somebody else can make you feel like you’re losing status. I suppose in some ways it can depend on what’s being asked of you and how. If you’ve seen the Green Hornet there’s actually a great example of “tooling” Where both Seth Rogans and Jay Chou’s characters are interested in the same woman. And when “Kato” looks like he’s starting to build some rapport with her, Seth Rogan comes out and pulls rank and sends Kato (who’s supposed to be his partner) to go make coffee (a task that should be beneath him based on his position) which is intentionally trying to lower his status to the woman. Now if something along these lines is happening at work, then yeah something should be done about it. If however all they’re doing is their job, by asking you to do yours, then I think your only option is to take away the opportunity by anticipating what might be asked of you, and having it done before anyone can ask.
A side note, I think the biggest value of mones in general but A314 specifically is the long term life changing potential they IF YOU WORK WITH THEM.
Meaning, as most people who have been here a while might know I’m a big advocate for John C. Maxwells teachings on leadership. He’s written several books on leadership and teamwork. I believe that unless you’re already IN a leadership position the book “The 17 Indisputable Laws of Teamwork” Spend one week focusing on each of the “laws”.
I truly believe that doing so will first of all, elevate your status as by being the initiator, you sort of take a leadership position by default. You’ll also become more visible as an asset to your company. Also, by providing positive leadership and motivation to the people considered your equals within the company, if and when a promotion comes your way, you’ll already have a great team working under you that will most likely be quite happy to see you in charge.
Once you finish the 17 laws of teamwork you can get into the leadership books, 21 laws, and 21 qualities of a leader.
Given it’s potential with work, I think a structured program for developing leadership qualities is a great way to capitalize on A314’s potential for fostering long term, positive life change. And vice versa, A314 can make developing into a leader much easier and your progress faster.