Hello to all in Pherotalk who have read my reports so far, i have just make this thread to inform you guys & ladies that i won’t be posting day 16 of my report as it is screwed up & just leave me bad memories just thinking about it Just a bit of info, i would like to say here is i went to a single party this week at a superclub named Zouk with my best combo mix & everything end up disasterous I’m sorry about this but well there is a lot of good & interesting reports with great hits out there done by our members that you guys & ladies can check out
Thank you for your time for reading this & see you
I hope so galydrum that Day 17 would be better for me as on Day 16, i used a good combo plus my best efforts but end up disasterous You could say that night i phero bombed myself
PS, you already had a falling out with a good friend, not sure how bad this night could have been.
I know it sucks reliving a bad night, but sometimes it’s necessary to ‘relive’ and confront the past so that we don’t find ourselves in the same situation later down the road.
If you want to share what happened later, we’d be happy to share our views on your night, hopefully one/some/all of which will help you.
I think you should stop hanging out at zouk and test some other environments where girls are not on the take. I have been to super clubs in the city and there really about hooking up with the guy with the money.
You can easily test this therory . Get a bunch of fake money or green paper wrap it like a wad of cash and go pay your tab. When you pull out that wad the girls are going to swarm you.
I think your a nice guy Phat and think your just looking in the wrong environment for your girl.
Well yeah that’s true buddy however that night was just terrible so like what i said to Zeph i have decided not to remember any events of it.
And yes you are right on what you have said there sometimes it’s necessary to confront the past so that we don’t find ourselves in the same situation again but i have make up my mind there so no report on what happen that night. http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/4/4_6_6.gif
Nah it’s ok Lady Tisha. Thanks for your theory there, i fully understand that the girls at Superclubs are just after money that’s all & after they are done finishing up your money, they will move to another guy that’s loaded.
Thanks Lady Tisha for your sweet comment on me there
(http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm022MXSG) & yes i have gone to the wrong environment to search for my girl but i intent to fix this & get better results on my next tests on my pheros whether i get the girl of my dreams or not.
Thanks for dropping by my thread
you got some good advices there Phat, forget about Zouk, superclubs are not for everyone, the environement is too competitive, too much ego and fakeness going on there. hope you will have more sucess in your next report
Hmm, it will be hard to forget about Zouk as i have been going there since i was at a younger age but well changes are needed there so yes i will change to another place with another new environment
Hey Phat, I’m gonna take some time out of my now busy summer days to post this, just for you (I’m posting this at 2 A.M. ), cause you’re a great guy.
What I think you should do is take what you remember from that day and run through it a few times, remembering as many details as you can. Remember what you did like that day, and also what you didn’t like that day, then ponder on them, finding out why things did go your way or why things didn’t go your way, then try to think of ways to keep the good going and keep the bad from hurting you again. Do this, but do not dwell too much on it like I used to do (and still sometimes do, I’m trying to fix it) or you will spend too much time in your head.
Something weird happened to me today. I went to church this morning and there were only guys in the youth building for the first time in. . . a while. . . so our teachers decided to use this blessing of femme-free time to discuss attraction, marriage, and sex without things getting messed up or made awkward by those walking/talking bags of tits n’ ass . They started off by stating that, in our world now, love is being portrayed as a homecoming type of thing (did asian schools have any homecoming type thing back in your time? If not, homecoming is simply an informal dance. Pimple studded teenage guys go out and ask amused teenage girls if they will accompany them to the ‘homecoming’ dance.) Guy meets girl, girl meets guy. Guy falls in love with girl, girl falls in love with guy. They get married. And according to current U.S. stats, more than 50% of these newly formed couples will get divorced !! High-fives all around!!!. . . no? ok . Anyways, from a christian standpoint (I go to a baptist church), while I’m not saying that you won’t be able to go out one night and get lucky with a beautiful lady because I’m sure that some of the guys here do (happened twice to me this summer already and I’m going to hell for it ), you should not worry if you have a bad day while trying to get in good with some hot chickas, for when the time is right, God will supply you with a partner. Genesis something something . And at work, I was also given attraction/relationship/sex tips from a co-worker that I respect, (he gets lots of girls, and he’s in his 40’s), lol. The high points of the conversation with him are that: 1. You have to be nice to girls first untill they ‘take the bait’, then you can be a “jerk” and tease them a lot . 2. Be a man, have unconditional confidence (the guy is 5’3" and everyone respects him) 3. There are tons of hot college chicks in mini-skirts in some clubs around town (he’s taking me out on thursday ).
Now, while you don’t have to post the events of that day here or anywhere else (I’d love to hear it in my room if possible), I’m sure that if we could know what happened, we could help you better.
Thanks buddy for your time for typing all that out although you hare a busy schedule there
Hmm, good advices that you have given there , i will think about doing what you have said there but really i don’t wish to remember the bad things that happened that day.
Well interesting story of what happened to you on that morning. Hmm, homecoming dance well no such thing here, for a guy to ask a girl to a dance is very rare here Here the people when they are older they work non stop & the younger ones study non stop. Life here is very stressful. People here don’t enjoy life to the fullest. Well i don’t wish to talk about how the people here live as it make me sad
Ok back to topic, you are so lucky to get tips from a co-worker that is experienced in dating girls Hmm, three good & valuable tips there, the third you are one lucky dude there going out with him to some clubs around town that’s full of hot college girls in short & sexy mini skirts, man i wish i was in your shoeshttp://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/23/23_11_37.gif
Hmm, you know that i still won’t post that day events as i don’t want to remember any events about it but tell you what maybe i will think about talking about it when i’m logged in your room.
Just a bit of info, i would like to say here is i went to a single party this week at a superclub named Zouk with my best combo mix & everything end up disasterous 
), you should not worry if you have a bad day while trying to get in good with some hot chickas, for when the time is right, God will supply you with a partner. Genesis something something 
. 2. Be a man, have unconditional confidence (the guy is 5’3" and everyone respects him) 3. There are tons of hot college chicks in mini-skirts in some clubs around town (he’s taking me out on thursday 
).