Ok so im 36, reasonably good looking. I have been dating this girl(38) for a little over a month. I bought instant female magic, turn up the heat, and ammo. Im not getting past second base with her, i.e. top comes off, but not any further. I have tried some different combos, but obviously i am doing something wrong. Have tried just ammo, a layer with 2 sprays Turn Up The Heat on chest, 2 of instant female magic on neck, and ammo on wrists. Various other combos, of these three.
Any recommendations from the masters on what i should try given what i already own. Im taking her out again tomorrow night, and will have the house to myself, so I want to work the magic so to speak.
I dont think im using too much, but i dont want to either, throw me a bone here, i know you guys know.
I’d throw some Instant Shine into the mix. Is the girl shy or very outgoing? I’ve found that girls that are extroverts seem to like a little A314. So that might do you well if that is the case.
I do 2 drops of A314 to the neck. Using my wrists I spread it from just behind my ears as far down my neck as it will spread. Then 3 sprays of Instant Female Magic. One on each wrist and one to the back of the neck or head. 20 minutes before you see her hit your chest with 2 shots of Turn Up The Heat. Then 2 shots of Instant shine on the side of your neck. I find it works best when I have on a button down shirt and I spray the TUTH where the skin is exposed. When you give her a hug try and get her noise right in the stuff. She’ll get the message.
There may be some other things to work on, other than the pheromones - you sure seem to be wearing enough. If that combo hasn’t worked to get her to explore more intimacy then there must be something else that you need to work out together. But she still wants to see you, so that’s a good thing.
I’d cut out the TUTH, if anything, and just wear the IFM, maybe 1 spray of ammo. And play a little harder to get yourself, break the pattern, don’t even go as far as you have done previously, but stay affectionate. She may wonder what’s up and start to escalate things herself.
Let me explain arousal and the difference between men and women first.
Men see something they like, they are very visual and become aroused by what they see. They have sex and in many cases, they feel a close connection to a women afterwards.
Women see something they like, they are emotion driven, they become aroused, they feel comfort closeness and a connection to a man. THEN they have sex. If they dont feel those feeling before hand your going nowhere no matter how aroused Turn Up The Heat makes them.
So Instant Honesty and Instant Female Magic is what you would use to get you past that resistance.
